Do women like being told what to do?

[Anonymous]

is that sort of thing sexy? i.e like in bed - he tells you what to do, spanks you and grabs you? what about regular life? thanks

[DY1976]

I think it really depends on the woman. My experience thus far is that most women enjoy the man to be dominant (that doesn't mean humiliate, although some of the talk and treatment can seem like that). I could be wrong, but from what little I've read on it, women AND men that like to be dominated in bed are often in positions of power... from CEO's to running the household (as in stay at home mom). The ones I've asked have simply stated that it's a relief to not have to think about what to do. Let the other person run something for once.

Outside of the bedroom, these have all been very strong, smart, women who I respected and treated as such. Totally different dynamic outside the bedroom.

Sometimes it's hard to find a balance, some actually enjoyed choking, slapping, spanking, restraining, toys, etc., and others just liked being moved into (or told) whatever position I wanted. Always better to ask before getting into the bedroom with the more extreme stuff, you can kill the mood quick I'm sure by spanking someone that hates it. Just ask whether they prefer the guy to be dominant or not, and if they say yes, ask what they like. If they know themselves, they'll tell you. And be honest about what you enjoy or are comfortable with as well, so you are both always on the same page.

[Ashleyreep]

It all depends on the girl.

Many women like to be dominated by men or being told what to do. To be honest, I couldn't find you a woman who didn't. But there are some out there. I am very much for this. But those who are for it so much are normally of the "sub" type, or submissive. Which goes along with Dominance and Submission, a much deeper subject.

So to fully answer your question.

Yes. Everything you said yes.

In Real life however I'm not sure.

I would say again those who like that would be the subs.

Need more info feel free to ask. I'm open to respond.

[peace-love-couture]

I would rather a guy be dominant during sex and in daily life,just for him to not be a push over or little b*tch

[selfishstars]

During sex, it can be very sexy.

In regular life, hells no.

[TaraisHereKinda]

1000% yes,

[Kacie]

in sex, I love it. In regular everyday life, no.

[Nyssii666]

With the spanking and grabbing, I wouldn't recommend it unless she indicates that she wants it. And probably don't tell her what to do but use body language to hint what you want.

[Anonymous]

Only way to go, you don't want to end up as a lap dog...