
Do you consider a 30+ guy whose never had a GF/had sex a fucking loser?

He's been very unlucky, and it's possible that he never put much effort in approaching women. In Western society, a man that doesn't approach on a consistent basis could very well end up a 40 year old virgin.
Younger women have no reason to seek men like this out, and they can literally get away with saying "I will never approach a guy that I like". Why? Because young women benefit from having a wider range of men pursuing them, offering meritless compliments and flaunting their qualifications. Her problems are nothing like his, because she simply has to know when to say yes, while the guy has to stomach rejection, not be discouraged, and move on to the next girl.
When a guy doesn't play this dating game, he could EASILY reach the age of 30 and get nothing. EASILY. Doesn't make him a loser.
Depends.
Some people are Asexual and Aromantic.
Society does not facilitate Asexual Aromantics because they're a tiny minority.
This can lead to both pressure to fit into society and a sense of isolation from society. It can damage a person's sense of identity.
If you suspect you might be an Asexual Aromantic, do some research.
If you feel like you want to talk about it with someone, feel free to reply.
He may have numerous reasons for not engaging in sex eg religion not methe the right woman to marry to have sex with or outside of marriage... shyness or too much life drama etc. I wouldn't think he's a loser in fact I'd think it cute and he'd be someone I'd consider dating as he has standards and doesn't just jump into bed with any random tramp.
Honestly its good that you haven't fallen for just anyone, dating is so over rated sometimes. Im sure the right women will find you , so dont sweat
I wouldn't think anything negative without knowing him and his story.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!if it was your choice to be a 30 year old virgin then its cool but if it wasn't then there is something very wrong here
At least try some hookers or a sugar baby. There is absolutely nothing wrong with paying for sex. If you can't get it for free at least pay for it and get it. Use protection.
I wouldn't call you a loser even if you wait till 50 because that is your decision. But I would suggest you try it at least by paying for it.
I wouldn't call him a fucking loser, I wouldn't say he is fucking anything actually...
He isn't a fucking loser because he's never had a girlfriend.
He's probably never had a girlfriend because he's a fucking loser.
Only if he's salty about it. If he doesn't care/bring it up all the time, he's as cool as any other guy in my books.
Everyone has reasons for their situation and it's not my job to make serious judgements on people based on something as insignificant as if they're a virgin or not.
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