Do you have unprotected sex?

I read an article blog (or something I can't recall) about condom use and I was really surprised at how many people responded that they have unprotected sex. If you've ever had unprotected sex (oral , vaginal etc) my question is what made you decide your partner was the person for that ( i.e. loved them, trusted them, you were super horny and didn't have protection on hand). And would you have to be in a committed relationship or exclusive relationship to do so? Would you ever have unprotected sex with someone you just met. Obviously if your married this doesn't really apply but feel free to comment about your pre- married experiences.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Since you include "oral" I am guessing that you are thinking more about STDs than pregnancy? I was always very worried about pregnancy and I am reasonably certain that nothing untoward ever occurred...STDs? Well...on one hand a lot of those were just gathering strength in my heyday...lol...I am not going to write a public essay as to what I witnessed. Not that I refuse to talk...just would be a long missive...yes I would be afraid of STDs now...for one thing I am married...and while I have never had an affair...giving your wife an STD would not be at all amusing? And..my wife's father gave her a half brother..if I did that to my wife she would surely kill me...IF I were single...I would always wish to give a woman oral..not all women...but without protection...(:(:(:

  • I've had unprotected sex quite a bit. Ran the risk many times of getting her pregnant and thank Cthulhu I didn't. That being said, I often didn't use protection because I either wasn't carrying any or was too horny to get some from somewhat inconvenient places - I also did genuinely like this girl (can't say "love" anymore since she is the target of Bon Jovi's "You Give Love a Bad Name").

    Now, I may have the chance to have a bit of fun this weekend and I considered not using protection since she is on birth control...But I am deciding to go ahead and use protection just to be safe. Don't want a kid popping out of someone I have just recently met afterall.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I've never had unprotected sex with a guy I just met, but I have with serious boyfriends and guys I trusted were clean and knew would pull out. I know that's risky but it all made sense according to my slutty logic at the time! Plus it just feels so good.

  • Pretty much all of my relationships we have stopped using condoms at one point or another. But yes, I have hooked up with randoms and not used a condom. I've always been on birth control since b4 that tho...

  • Yes I've had and still do have unprotected sex with my boyfriend. I was on the pill but now I use a diaphragm.

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  • I've had unprotected oral sex (cunnilingus) far more frequently than any other unprotected sex.

    I guess it's because I don't like dental dams or whatever the f*** you're supposed to use when going down on a woman.

    I've never caught anything, but when it comes to vaginal sex and blowjobs, its condoms all the way.

  • I started usingg condoms on my forth sexual partner after a while, guess I got lucky that I didn't catch anything off anyone but now I'm going to always use them, at least until I know for sure theydont have anything,

  • I basically bareback every guy I meet but if he insists on condom I’ll agree to use it. Fortunately most guys want go bare

  • I have had unprotected sex with about five women some relationships and some one night stands.. luckily I never caught anything and never got a woman pregnant.

  • I've had unprotected oral and vaginal sex many times in committed relationships as well as with casual sex partners. Skin on skin feels absolutely amazing plus it feels far more intimate ;-)

    I've been very risky at times having had sex with women I've just met but luckily i haven't got any pregnant nor caught any STI/STDs :-)

  • Skin on skin or I don't put it in

  • I've never done it the first time with a girl, but if we've been together awhile and we're exclusive, eventually we'll start riding bare. It really does feel SOOOOOO much better.

  • i asked a question about this regarding oral. the general consensus was that if a guy were to get out protection to go down on her, the girl would be like wtf. almost all the girls also said they wouldn't want a guy to have a condom on for oral.

    ive done all unprotected. never used protection for oral unless a girl pulled me out and just started sucking it during sex.

  • i was stupid, she was my 1st, she said she was on the pill and that it would feel better. we stayed together for a few months. we were exclusive.

    since her I haven't unless I really trusted her and knew her and she was on the pill and clean.

    ive learned girls lie about things like being on the pill...no baby scare but have lost trust.

    also don't see it as a big deal to buy condoms anymore...its scary when you never have before and are 'young'

    • Dude ha ha you have no idea man. Always wrap it until you know 100 percent she's not psycho. Learned that the hard way...

  • I had unprotected sex once. What made me decide was I was drunk and he was really hot. Not a good idea, but luckily I did not catch anything or get pregnant. I don't think I would risk it again though.