Do you keep lube on or wipe it off?

If you're giving a blowjob, do you make the guy wear a condom? And if it's lubricated (but you're not having sex after, just giving a bj), do you wipe the lube off or leave it?
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Guess I should add, if you are practicing safe oral sex-do you wipe off lube or not?
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  • A blowjob while the guy wears a condom is no better than a handjob while the guy wears a condom. It's an unnecessary waste of time and effort. The pleasure comes from:

    1) the bare skin contact between the penis and the mouth/tongue

    2) the knowledge that it's 'safe' in that pregnancy chances are 0%

    3) great for those quick moments when you want to fool around and period sex isn't your thing

    Blowjobs require a certain level of trust anyhow on the guy's part, given the proximity of teeth to the penis. I'd expect that someone wanting to give a blowjob would do their due diligence beforehand and ask if the recipient is clean before engaging in phallic tongue-wrestling...

    • But people can lie lol. My friend told me lube tastes gross cause she gave her boyfriend a bj and he wore a condom. Why is a condom such a taboo thing? Like really?

    • I seriously suggest that you find a male friend whom you trust and who would be willing to receive a blowjob from you, and then you try it. The experience will certainly be rewarding for him, but you'll have a chance to see, taste and feel what it's like from your perspective. Women who give blowjobs tend to like watching how the guy reacts to what they're doing; it's a mental thing in that regard I guess. Plus, it can give a sense of power to the one providing the blowjob.

    • Also, the condom thing isn't so much a taboo as a joykill for guys. If you're going to go through the trouble of shoving a penis into your mouth in the first place, why dull the sensation with a latex screen. As I said above, the feeling from a guy's perspective would be no different than if you just gave him a handjob instead. To me, that's why condoms are a waste of time where blowjobs are concerned.

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  • People really wear a condom if all they all they are getting is a blowjob? wow, I learned something today.

    • I don't know, I've never given one nor have I had sex. I'm just thinking though, if you were hooking up with a guy, you don't know if he's clean or not. So wear a condom right?

    • Yeah good point, but just don't give a blowjob to a guy that's not your boyfriend and only have sex with a guy who wears a condom, boyfriend or not

Most Helpful Girl

  • Oh gosh no never ever! Can't even think how miserable wearing a condom would be for a guy. If you can't suck it raw don't suck it!

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  • I think if I was ever told that a condom was required for a blowjob, I'd just pass.

    • Agreed

    • Why though? There's many STDs and such that can be passed through oral. Wouldn't you want to protect yourself? I have been with guys who went down on me, but they never asked if I was clean (I am by the way, but still). I wouldn't want to give head and risk infection. What's so taboo about a condom (I'm not being sarcastic, legit asking). My friend gave her boyfriend a bj with a condom and she said lube tastes gross.

    • There's nothing taboo about using a condom, it just sucks. I've only used one once in my life, during vaginal penetration, and it reduced the feeling to a level that made it almost pointless. Up until that point, I thought that was just a bullsh*t line guys tell girls because of the mental appeal of going bareback. I was wrong. I'm in a monogamous LTR, so STDs aren't an issue for me. Now, if I was randomly having sex with strange people, I'd probably be double bagging it, or I'd be celibate.

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  • giving a bj with a condom is honestly irregular (unless it's a flavored condom).

    I never used a flavored condom so I wouldn't know how to answer the 2nd part of your question.

    • What's so bad about a condom and a bj? I've read you don't feel it and blah blah, but what if you contracted herpes? All because you were too good to wear a condom? seems foolish to me...

    • Honestly, I would decline a BJ if I had to put on a condom. I'd rather her use her hand and actually FEEL it, than to get a BJ I can't feel. ----------- I understand where you're coming from with safety, but I also have to understand that the GIRL also enjoys feeling the penis in her mouth, so for her it is also less enjoyable. A girl with your mentality that I'm hooking up with...i'd just tell you to use your hand, or I will "strap up" and we'll have sex with no foreplay.

    • I dunno, I mean yeah it'd probably feel weird with rubber in your mouth, but I wouldn't want to catch anything. I just don't understand how people are so slack about protection...

  • great question