Do you like blowjobs more than sex?

I think my boyfriend likes blow jobs more than sex. He enjoys sex but I'm sure he likes blowjobs more. Is this common? Do you think it means I'm loose?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Sex is for you, blowjobs are for him.

    Don't get me wrong, sex is great, but blowjobs are better. The only time the physical sensations of sex even begin to approach being as good as a BJ is when the guy could care less about what the girl gets out of it, and it's usually over in 2 minutes or less. If he cares however, it's a lot of hard and strenuous work and takes a ton of self-control and a whole lot of trying to STOP yourself from enjoying it too much.

    A BJ is pure, uncontained pleasure, unmatched by anything else on the planet...assuming it's done properly, which most girls don't, and there's nothing more frustrating or disappointing than a bad blowjob.

    If anything your man's preference is telling you two good things: A) you give amazing blowjobs, which is a rare and wonderful thing (hence all the other comments here saying that BJ's aren't as good as sex), and B) he cares more about what you get out of sex than he does about his own enjoyment. All good things!

    • This guy's answers are spot on.

  • This answer is as good as asking a girl, Do you like your pussy eaten or do you want cock in your pussy? Both are fun. Blow jobs are very intense and an out of the world experience but sex is like being in heaven. If we cannot have sex my girl gives me a blowjob followed by a hand job but if we can have sex I want to finish off in her pussy. And it is same for her she has some of the most intense orgasms when I eat her but finally she wants her pounding and fill. For both sex is more satisfying and wholesome, but that's us.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Ok so how about if my husband doesn't want to have used after me sucking on him but only wants me to suck him off till he nuts in my mouth, not a blowjob b4 sex but always just wanting to but in my mouth? It makes me feel like my pussy isn't good enuf for him anymore & that hurts bad then when I don't do it for him for a few days, he gets upset but ofcourse I'm still not getting sex all the while either. Is there something wrong w me?

    • If you're over 35 asking this question that's absurd. The mystery and magic of sex wears off after 23. You are an adult. Surely you are aware that as you get older pleasure declines. Time to start doing 40 year old things.

  • It means he's a guy lol. There are girls that say the same thing and that they like receiving oral more then sex. It doesn't mean that you're loose so don't think that. Guy's just love blowjobs.

  • My boyfriend likes bjs more than sex sometimes, but he says it's only because there's more control with my tongue and stuff. So I don't think it's that you're loose.

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  • It hardly means your loose. It means that you must really give a great bj. Just because he likes it as much as he does, doesn't mean that he automatically thinks less of your vagina. If you think your getting short changed on the sex, then talk to him. If he doesn't share more equally in the giving, then stop giving him bj's so often.

  • Yes it's normal. Many women like oral better as well. Oral sex is very stimulatory, something about te tounge and saliva that makes it possibly more pleasurable than actual sex. No it doesn't mean you're loose!

  • Many a times I too love blowjobs over sex. Feeling on your penis moving in and out in a girl's mouth is a sensational pleasure, and having her tongue licking your tool is out of this world.

    Your p****'s tightness has nothing to do with it.

    Sex takes efforts of moving while blowjob is a sure relax way to have sex and if she swallows... nothing like it.

  • I'm not understanding how any of this makes you"loose."

    • I thought maybe a blowjob feels better because it's tighter on him, maybe my p*ssy it's pleasing him enough.

  • Yes, I like BJ's more, no you aren't loose.. Blowjobs are receiving pure pleasure like massage therapy. Intercourse is more like dancing and requires much more effort and attention. I need both at different times.

  • I think it means you're good with your mouth.

    • hmmm and how would you know?

    • Ooo, 7 wants details :p

  • Some guys just prefer them honestly.

  • u must be very skilled, B.J’s are amazing and getting it before sex will in my experiance will make me stay longer (like 45min+), but sex is the pinnicle I can't compare those and say sex falls 2nd

  • No, i like sex way better. Most girls don't even know how to give proper blowjobs. They use their teeth and it feels like i stuck my meat in... well, a meat grinder.

  • yeah I like getting blowjobs more than sex but teeth kind of scare me a bit and its sore if she scratches my d*** with her teeth. I kind of get squeemish with teeth.

  • Same anonymous 25 to 29 guy posing as a girl douchebag asking questions about blow jobs

  • No I loooove blowjobs. I always thought they were better and it is not a reflection on your vagina

    • I bet you like it better when the girl has a lively mouth and doesn't stroke you too much with her hand.

    • Ehhh someitmes I like with or without the hand

  • Guys sometimes prefer blowjobs more because they do not have to do any work, don't worry he is just lazy

  • bjs are just amazing, and there is more attention to us than during sex.

  • My preferences are the opposite. I don't really like blow jobs all that much.