Do you like cuddling to include penetration?

I feel I need to justify the difference between cuddling with penetration and sex is. Sex includes movement, cuddling does not, except when changing positions. My girlfriend doesn't seem to like it, but I think it sounds great. After my girlfriend orgasms and collapse on top of me, just laying still inside her while her vagina is still pulsating is a great feeling. Also couple of times she's passed out after her orgasm while still on top of me and it was great just laying there inside her for ages. I guess I just like being still, feeling inside her with my penis, without the distraction of what my penis is feeling when it's being slid in and out of her. For example I picture us spooning on the couch with me inside her, while watching a movie. I ask this because I've read a few stories of people who enjoy having sexually stimulating devices under their clothes while out in public and going about their daily lives.
I haven't tried it, but it sounds good
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I haven't tried it, and I don't think I'd like it
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I've tried it and I like it
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I've tried it and don't like it
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I should also mention that while inside her and we're not moving my penis throbs with my pleasure. When not gyrating about perhaps you would notice that more and enjoy it?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • This is honestly one of my favorite things. My boyfriend was hesitant to try it because he thought it would be weird and thought I expected him to stay hard the whole time but now I think he likes it. It good when you still want to have sex but you need time to recover inbetween too ;) I just like the intimacy of it, the feeling that you can't get any closer and the feeling of his heartbeat. I also like when I can feel him grow inside me if he gets turned on again, it's immensely hot. I would like to try it other times too (like when watching a movie) but I don't know if he will be into it.

    • Check out reuniting. info... staying connected while cuddling is part of Karezza sex. It can be totally amazing if both people are on board.

  • It's a god way to feel closer to the person your with, I love laying on my boyfriend and kissing hi while he is inside of me. It makes me feel like our connection is that much more hehe

    • yes it does make me feel very close when she does that with me. It's particularly good with her laying on top of me with her whole body pressed hard up against mine. I can't think of any way to position our bodies in a closer way that reflects how I feel about her. But, sadly she gets off too soon.

    • Well I guess not all girls appreciate it as much

  • If it includes penetration, it's sex, not cuddling. It is sex whether you move or not, to me anyhow.

    • fine then, get technical, call it, stopping moving while having sex, with the possibility of the focus of one or both involved including something as well as the physical contact between you stimulating emotional bonding. but people get the idea of cuddling up for a movie, and what penetration is. put them together for the idea I had and call it what you like

    • Okay. Well I don't mean to sound so skeptical. If you like it, that's great. But personally I think I would just find it a bit frustrating.

    • certainly if the mood strikes while doing it, go for it, and get your rhythmic movements going.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Tbh I like the idea. It seems the even more intimacy and such. Not sure why anyone wouldn't like it tbh.

  • It sounds great...but I doubt that I would stay hard...

    • no pressure to. as you relax you will smoothly and naturally transition to just regular cuddling. You're not entering a binding contract to stay hard for a pre-determined length of time

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  • oh it lovely! I can sleep like this, sooo intimate and connected:)

  • Sure why not. o2, connecting people.

    • lol

  • I don't like cuddling at all.so D

    • doh, I should have made that option E

  • I think it sounds nice as a way to make the bond between two lovers stronger and a feel of being a part of each other.

  • Yes, i love it