Do you prefer to grind or bounce?

Girls--when you are on top, do you prefer to grind or bounce up and down on your man? Guys--what do you prefer a girl to do?
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  • Both are great, but I tend to grind more because it feels like a more natural rhythm for my hips to move in, and I can feel him in there as far as he can go, hitting every nook and cranny. That's not to say I don't do any up and down thrusting, because I do, it's just not as easy for me physically.

    My dude likes both, and doesn't seem to have a clear cut preference either way. He likes anything where I'm going for it and 'gettin some' for myself. So any vigorous thrusting back will do it, whether it's thrusting up to meet him in missionary, or back into him in doggy, or doing all the work and going for what *I* want and what feels good to ME when I'm on top. Whether it feels better for him physically is questionable, but it seems to be enough of a visual and mental turn-on for him that it almost without fail 'does him in' and gets him off harder. I think a lot of men are very turned on by the thought of their girl 'using him' for her pleasure in that way, so that's where their minds go in those kind of situations.

  • My guy seems to prefer the bounce, although it is much harder to concentrate on pulling him as far out as possible without going to far. It seems that the more concentration a move takes, the more guys like it. So long, orgasms on top :(

    • yeah I really don't like bouncing

  • I do both. Variety is a good thing. But I think I, as well as my boyfriend, like grinding a little bit more.

Most Helpful Guys

  • One without the other doesn't do it. Gotta have both and delivered with a bit of sweat and enthusiasm and noise! But the right proportion...that's trickier...possibly best when it's 60:40 grinding to bumping. Bumping from a well-padded girl is heaven though and grinding when she's flexible and has a full range of twisting movement ..' ...mmmmm. With grinding you can feel yourself reaching the whole inside of her p****. But bumping up and down means she's into you. Maybe the most intense for me is when she's grinding and french kissing at the same time.

  • As long as she isn't sitting on me, either is fine.

    • why don't you like her sitting on you? haha

    • I like curvy women and sitting on the boys isn't pleasant. :P

    • hahaha ohhh OK :D

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  • Depends on the position, Doggy is bouncing and me on top is grinding, Not always but I like that the best

  • I prefer to grind, this is the only position I find that makes me orgasm.However my boyfriend doesn't like it as much as my hips tend to dig into him. :(

    • same here! and that is the only way I orgasm as well.

    • Oh, really?Jeez its so annoying!Any tips on how to reach one another way?

    • If you can get your guy to 'wine' (Jamaican term) you'll maybe orgasm in a similar way to when you grind. See this article link (you'll thank me later!) and get practising (it's difficult at the start)

  • Either way, I wouldn't know. ;-D

  • Bounce! :o)

  • Bouncing just looks really sexy. But variety is always good.

  • grind then bouce tease to stand then bounce to get it goign

  • Bouncing all the way

  • A combination of both and both the bounce and the grind intermingled throughout

  • I do both nobody likes the same thing every time

  • Both would be nice, a mix.

  • When they bounce :D

  • if I want quicky then I want bounce..it makes come quickly...but if I want long last grind feel better its stimulate long time.

  • I like when a girl bounces! Grinding is good when she gets tired tho

  • I never either but not sound sooo fun tbh

  • I want my d*** to be stuck deep inside her so I prefer her to grind her hips. Better for cumming insider her too like that

    • that's why I like it...deepest penetration

    • yeah, at least that way there is always a constant rush of her wetness with any of it falling out. Much hotter to feel it all moist

  • I do a bit of both

  • I prefer the grind. It just seems more sexy to me. Anyone can bounce but grind lets me know she can really work it. A little bit of both doesn't hurt either.

    • grinding = amazing!