Do you shower before or after sex?

Only before
Vote A
Only after
Vote B
Before AND after
Vote C
Neither
Vote D
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I REALIZE NOW that "during" should have been added as an option. So, if you fall under this category... I get ya.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • That depends... if it has been a long and sweaty day I will shower anyway so if I have sex after I guess I showered before sex ;-) the question is how long before sex is a shower considered "before sex"? 1 hour, 2, 4? immediately before?
    We have done immediately before too. you start making out and realize that your last shower was yesterday morning... if there is going to be any sort of "face close to genitals" kind of situation, I will ask for a short pre-shower. No doubt.

    Other days I shower after... no shower sex ever tho, we have an old fashioned (slippery) bath tup and to even try would potencially be deadly lol

  • Well, I certainly make sure I'm not sweaty before sex. I try to smell nice because I would hate to be smelly before we got started-good hygiene is important, haha. And afterwards it depends. If my boyfriend and I are in bed and sleepy, then no. But if it's in the morning, then yes.

    I don't live with my boyfriend so I always shower before going over to his place or hanging out. It's about 100 everyday in my town, so it's definitely needed-and the same about good hygiene applies.

  • It depends on when my last shower was and what I've been doing. If I'm not to sweaty I'm down for having it without. Sometimes too it just isn't possible like if you've been out on a date and stop to go parking on the ride home. Afterward, cleanup is a damp facecloth or if in the car a wet wipe or tissues.

  • I shower at least once a day to begin with so smell is no problem. So I don't shower JUST to have sex. I know I'll get there, end my day with a shower if I'd not started my day with one. But no, not RIGHT after sex, never. Right before? Yes, but he joins.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I though the point of shower sex was for it to be spontaneous since when do you schedule spontaneous things.

    I can see it now

    She tries something in the shower and you're like wait, wait ( pulls schedule book out of thin air, looks it over ) tried to pull a fast one over me huh your scheduled in 10 minutes lol.

  • well you forgot to add while ;) i defiantly shower after as well and since i shower everyday so its also before

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  • How do you shower before sex? Is it scheduled sex or something?

    • My thoughts exactly, and why I'm asking this

  • Is during also an option?

    • Thank you♡♡♡

  • Depends. If I feel gross, then I'll want a shower before. We usually shower after.

  • Before and after is ideal.

  • During. O. O

  • Ask your partner to join you. It can be a very rewarding experience.

  • Generally, I shower after sex and sometimes I shower before sex too. If I want to shower before and I don't want to ruin the mood by jumping up and running in the shower beforehand, I'll just take him in with me.

  • After. With my guy.

  • Shower sex would be a great idea too

  • I frequently have shower sex.

    I may shower before sex, but rarely after.

  • what if i don't have sex?

    • lol please still shower XD

    • hahahaha... don't you tell me what to do... !!! @George1992

    • hahahahahaha... actually i am begging you@cinderelli

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  • Before, after and during

  • Certainly after. But probably before too, so that I smell good during sex.

  • I voted C, but that's because I generally go to a brothel.

  • What if i fell asleep after?

  • I shower after I don't really see the purpose of getting clean to only get dirty again especially if you weren't really dirty the first time.

    Now if it's needed like if I worked out or if it's hot of course I'll shower first.