Well, first you need to assess the definition of "Virgin" -- some women take a very (ahem) liberal interpretation of the term. Employees at local STD clinics across the country deal with walk-ins who protest fervently that they are virgins, though if they were, they wouldn't be there tending to all manner of infectious diseases contracted during oral or anal sex...
Next, a guy virgin? That's like finding the golden goose. Even if their first experience was awful, there's just no going back.
The unrealistic expectation is NOT that people prefer to marry virgins, but that people expect to gain all manner of sexual experience THEN marry an honest-to-God virgin, ruin his/her life with disease and jaded outlooks on life, love, and sexuality...
Thank you for the answer :) best yet and you weren't bias.
Lol. I try. :-)
You should worship the ground I walk on but not because I'm a virgin mostly because I'm awesome...jk jk.
I don't want to marry a virgin to be honest I'd rather a more experienced guy but I can't control who I will love so it doesn't matter what I want because if I love him it doesn't f***ing matter.
Also I haven't seen any virgin girls on here that act up themselves...I have seen a lot of non virgin girls dissing virgins because we state that we're virgins in a lot of our answers. So I don't even get why you brought that part up.
But whatever...I know this might sound stupid but I'm a virgin because I would love to give myself to one man for the rest of my life. Not really about the sex for me, it's more emotional.
Haha okay :)
I think with all the pressures nowadays to have sex, it may be harder to find a virgin. I remember not too long ago I said I was going to wait till marriage but I didn't. I don't have any regrets and I'm still with him. I also wouldn't have a problem marrying a non-virgin but I don't want a guy who has slept around a lot.
I do honestly think it's unrealistic because by the odds of finding someone who is still a virgin by the time they're in their mid 20s (which, realistically speaking, is the minimum age for someone to be mature enough and stable enough to handle marriage) is slim to none. Maybe 1 in every 100 people you'll meet is still one by that age, and the odds of that 1 out of 100 being someone who is totally compatible with you reduces your odds even further.
Thanks for the honest answer. I don't know, I just think there's a big fuss about it. I guess virgins are kinda cool, bit like unicorns :)
What do you mean up themselves? I do think it's unrealistic. Not many guys/girls wait that long. I'm a virgin and all I want is to me someone one I'm close to. Relationship or not. Also it seems that the ones who insist on a virgin have ridiculous standards too.
Like some of the girls on here, just because they are virgins they act like everyone should worship the ground they walk on. I don't get it. Good answer though thankyou :)
I don't think being a virgin makes you any better. At my age I actually feel like lower than everyone that isn't a virgin. :|
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!No it's not unrealistic.
Would you expect your husband to be a virgin and would you be upset if you found out he wasn't?
No I wouldn't and no.
Then why isn't it unrealistic?
I'm a virgin who expects to marry a virgin. I'm Egyptian Muslim and the norm here is waiting for marriage. I think it's realistic but less likely to find in your country/culture.
Oh neat :) how to you expect to meet a suitable husband?
Sheer luck & coincidence :) I'm planning to wait until the right guy enters my life :)
No it's not unrealistic, it doesn't make a person superior to be a virgin. I would just feel like if I married a virgin we would be on the same wave length (sex outside marriage is not OK with me).
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