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Do you think I should or not take a blowjob from a girl in club?

i was in a lapdancing club, and this girl keep begging me to take her for a dance, round the back to give me a blowjob. she has being on it me for last couple of weeks to do it with her. all my friends were with me, now they are just calling me stupid. cause I never took her offer. why is she doing this to me? I don't know what to do? she is screwing my head up lol. in the sense making horny all the time.
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i feel if I do it with her, I would feel dirty and cheap afterwards.
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thanks everyone I get the general gist of what I should do. I won't take the offer. by the way, I go to strip clubs, because I like the environment. easy to get drinks, and get to chat to some nice girls.i hate going to bars and clubs. I don't go to strip clubs to get sex.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Go ahead. Its just a blowjob, not sex so their shouldn't be any emotions involved. Just enjoy the moment and be glad she is all over you and wants to make your d*** feel good. Plus you can tell your friends after and they will be happy for you. She is doing this because she wants you and you are probably a really good dancer and that turns girls on. If you let her blow you and after she doesn't give you any more attention, no big deal. Just move on. Lots of hot girls out their. But if she still acts all horny the following days and weeks after then maybe you should make a move. Girls are stupid and horny. Sometimes, you just gotta take what they offer.

    • I'm not sure you're fully understanding the type of club we're talking about here

  • Did she ask for money for drugs? or maybe she's drunk, in which case don't take advantage of her. If she's not then she has no standards and you shouldn't trust it, who knows where her mouth has been or how many other guys she's been on that night. And if you think you'll feel cheap and dirty imagine how she would feel when you don't even ask for her number...Unless maybe she's just into that sort of thing.

    • I agree with what your saying about who knows where her mouth has been, I think a lot of people forget about diseases just for the sake of getting their bits sucked or whatever.

    • to be honest I now I wish I never ask this question lol. the reason I won't take her offer, is because I am not willing to catch an STD. she asked me to take her for a dance, and that cost 40quid. but I said to her no thanks, I am not that sort of guy.

    • smart man

  • Wow a man with intergity, Bravo too you dear . Your not a baby you can get things through the mouth we are talking about a stripper people. If she's begging him this probably not her first time begging a guy that she's feeling. You want to know people before sexual acts I hope, it's not like it somebody he knows well. I think you are right to have concerns forget your friends that's your decision.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Enjoying sex to a willing women is no cheap and dirty. If you are in a committed relationship then don't cheat your girlfriend, but if not then why letting go the offer. Though I am assuming that the girl is hot and not much older.

    If she is an attractive girl, why does it bothering just to have a bj or even make out in bed. Go man, live life. There is nothing wrong. You are not cheating anyone and you are not taking advantage of anyone.

  • As well as broke and afraid of disease ... Not like she is going to do it for free there, or its just a teaser for when she tries to get you to pay for sex.

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  • It might be worth feeling dirty and cheap! With feelings like that what are you hanging around a strip club for anyway?

    • i like strip clubs, you get too see and talk to girls. I don't like clubbing and going to bars, everyone pushing you and its so hard to get a drink. I just like the environment.

    • i am not looking to get a shag from there anyway. just up for a good time.

  • No. That's gross. What if she has Hep or HIV? You'd never know. SO GROSS.

  • If you don't want to feel dirty and cheap then don't do it, it's not about what your friends think it's about your moral principles.

  • LoL noob!

  • It's just a blow job, if I was you, I'd be enjoying a BJ a long time ago.

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