Does it actually feel better to ejaculate inside a vagina?

[Anonymous]

The guy I have been dating is 40 years old. I am 27. We are both very into each other but I am concerned. The first time we had sex he finished inside me and I had no idea he was going to do it. I told him I'm not on the pill and he should have asked me. The second time he finished inside me again and now I guess since I had it I want it again. For me its mostly emotional but I do love to feel him as he comes.. It does take two to tango so I'm not ignoring my underlying feelings here... however, I know that he is ready for marriage and children. Do you think this may have anything to do with him ignoring the fact that we aren't using protection and I'm not on the pill.. or do you think the feeling of coming inside is too overpowering and once you do it once you just want to keep doing it?

[MrOracle]

Does it feel better? That's the best feeling ever (though cumming at the end of a BJ as she continues to suck is a close second). It's indescribably great.

Having said that, guys generally know when they're about to orgasm, and can CHOOSE to pull out before that happens. That's absolutely NOT going to make for RELIABLE "birth control", but on average, it will help.

Really, though, if you aren't trying to get pregnant, you have no business having sex with this guy without being on BC or without him using a condom. If you continue, you WILL get pregnant before too long.

[AidenBlue]

It is hard to stop when you are in there and lets be clear - the 'pull out ' method is not a method.

Not knowing anything about you two - outside guess is he's 40 you are 27 and if you get knocked up he hopes he locks you up. What 40 yea old wouldn't want to lock up a 27 year old gf/wife?

Do the right thing - get on the pill pronto. Have kids when you are committed - not by his accident and pushing you into a commitment. My .02.

[Troian]

I know I love when my boyfriend ejaculates in me...but I'm on the pill. and my boyfriend knows it, we don't want a baby. He's aware you're not on the pill, he knew what he was doing...even if he didn't ejaculate inside of you there was already a risk of pregnancy. He didn't use condoms to start with, you too don't mind to be pregnant obviously.

[HandsomeRaj]

A human being is all about self consciousness and self control, if we can't do that then we are no different than an animal.

Yes the feeling of cumming inside the vagina as well as in anal or oral is quite fulfilling but not checking with the woman, not telling her, ignoring what she says is domination and/or recklessness and/or no respect for her.

Just because he's ready for marriage doesn't mean he imposes what he wants to do on you - ensure you have your say and self respect in place in any relationship.

[madhatters4]

does it feel better?

well how does it feel when you are about to orgasm and then it is interrupted, even if only briefly? it just doesn't feel as good.

but I don't think that is the sole or even primary reason why he is finishing inside you. whether he wants kids, marriage or just likes finishing inside he should respect your wishes for him not to do that and you need to stand up for what you want. so next time tell him to put on a condom, finish outside you or you're not going to continue a relationship with him.

it's pretty disrespectful to blatantly ignore someone's wishes. but he you never protest and he is not the especially respectful type then he is pretty much going to do what he wants

[kambo_trick3y]

Get that baby cradle ready.

[THE_Godfather]

Yes it does. BUT,

He is WRONG to do it if you do not or would prefer for him not to do it since you don't seem like your ready to be impregnated.

His wants for marriage & children is also a mutual thing. YOU are the one that has to carry that fetus for 9 months & everything else that goes along with it.

I would be happy & gladly finish in your mouth to avoid your unwanted pregnancy.

[lkjhg69cum]

It feels incredible Yes, but he is just trying to get you pregnant. Ditch him. He's a user.

[BouncyPerkyFun]

I absolutely love it when a man finishes inside me.

[AwesomeErich]

SPERM DONOR :D

[Dragan]

I love it when finish in vagina.

[rahul6023]

its an awesome feeling finishing inside...

[furqan112]

women get pleasure when they feel man cum inside because its satisfying for them and its really addictive thing... it means u will want more and more of his cum inside ur pussy if u will not stop...

[Anonymous]

I might be that weird percentage of guys that doesn’t enjoy coming inside. To me it feels like my reproductive area is just transferring semen into my partner. I don’t feel much pleasure. I would rather finish with a blow job or simply pulling out and releasing on her back.

[Anonymous]

There are two separate issues here:

(a) Yes, it does feel good for a guy to climax in a woman's vagina. That's kind of acceptance, and it does have an emotional edge too... just like guys feel wanted when a woman giving them oral sex swallows them! Incidentally, there are even scientific reasons why a woman feels better emotionally after a guy's semen is deposited in her.

(b) Him coming inside you without asking, without warning, is bizarre! For that matter, either he or you should also be taking precautions about unprotected sex. Even when married, my partner and me would be extremely overcautious over this! Who wants to be caught pregnant when not planning for it? Unless one is extremely unconcerned!

[Anonymous]

Title question: Yes my lover's is quite tight an contracts on me when she comes. If I can come at the same time, the warmth and constriction of her vagina makes it better.

Yes, his indifference to protection may be an implied marriage proposal.

For a guy, "I couldn't help myself!" pretty much passes by 40.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not sentimental about weddings. I'd do it. If your test came back positive, I'd buy a license and head for the courthouse for a "shotgun wedding" and get started with the future.