Does anal sex hurt the first time & even after?

[Anonymous]

Women, if you have ever had anal, does it hurt. Men, same question.

[wagsingle]

I'm bi and have bottomed (whenit's 2 guys we say top and bottom, I'm sure you can figure out which is which) My first time did not hurt at all. It's all a matter of relaxing your sphincter. Some need practice to learn to relax. That's the ones who say it only hurts the first time, or first few times. Some people just can't learn to relax, and for them it will always hurt. Also, lube is very important. I suggest you make him pony up for the good stuff...100% silicone lube like Swiss Navy Premium. (There regular is water based.) With water base lube. by the way, if you do him with a strap-on, he just bay find he lies it. Plenty of straight guys do, because his prostrate is up there and it's commonly called "The Male G-Spot"

[Thatguy16]

Ok anal will hurt for the first time, it's something big going into a small place where stuff is only sup post to come out, but the pain will be less and maybe non-existent after the first time if he takes it very slow, your relaxed and your well lubes up. Also if you do decide to do anal I would suggest that you give yourself a enema before you do anything up there and that he finger you a bit before, to loosen you up a bit. Especially the first time you try it.

If you have any questions feel free to send me a message :)

[wagsingle]

Not always! My first time taking it up the poop shoot (I'm bi) it didn't hurt at all. Most of us drop logs bigger than the average cock. It's all a matter of relaxing and not tightening up your sphincter. It's also important for the other person to use lots of lube and take it easy. And some people just never get used to it. It just isn't for some people.

[Anonymous]

i have done it, there has been times I absolutely adored it and times I was like "BACK OFF"

really depends, I would recommend relaxing as much as you can, so your butt muscles do not clench.

lots of lube, and make sure your in the mood.

when it hurt, it hurt so terribly I cried. when it felt good I cried as well :P

the ass is very powerful lol

[Stacyzee]

It will hurt no matter what because it is a tiny little hole getting penetrated.

However,

Anal sex will be more pleasurable if you relax and if it is done correctly.

Make sure the guy uses lots of lube.

Fingering to loosen you up a little (especially for a first time experience) is always good.

[Asker]

If it hurts everytime, why do people do it?

[zagor]

Cuz it feels good to be the one stickin' it in. Though I've heard gay men like the pressure on the prostate or something. Never been on the receiving end so I can't verify that.

[Asker]

If gay men enjoy it, why don't women? Also, doesn't it get any more comfortable if you do it a couple of times? I'm just curious.

[AliceMcKay]

Women don't have a prostate.....

[cmpunk]

What does the prostate have to do with anal? jeez, women don't have a prostate, but they do have big round juicy butts, besides, you can simulate their G-spot through anal, and to be quiet honest, Women can get more orgasm from anal than vaginal, for many reasons.

[rawrrimadinosaur]

The only time I have ever had anal sex was when I was raped, and yes it hurt. Very badly.

[Tigerlily]

Holy sh*t, goes without saying that must have been particularly horrible... but I think it's another situation where if it's done properly and consensually, it doesn't have to hurt.

[rawrrimadinosaur]

I agree, but I would assume under any circumstances there is a pretty good chance it is going to hurt.

[nicelilsprout]

I've tried it a couple of times (unfortunately, talked into it) and each time, I despised it. It was very, very uncomfortable and I felt disgusting.

[Asker]

Why did you feel disgusting?

[nicelilsprout]

Disgusting: because I felt like I was getting sh*t everywhere, even though we were taking it really slow, I felt like a giant turd...no joke

[Kasady]

Yes, it will always hurt and it feels uncomfortable afterward. You really have to be "in the mood" for it and it has to be lubricated inside and out.

[depressedguy]

why do guys want to stick it in a girls anus isn't the vagina made for sex id prefur the vagina

[20Questions]

I've never had anal sex and I never will/would

[Lucky1227]

I feel like if you lube it up you will be fine its not that bad.

[matthew88]

tell him you want a rim job first.

[Asker]

What is a rim Job?

[matthew88]

Tell him you want him to use his tongue down there first.

[Asker]

But wouldn't that both a man to lick a woman there, it is her anas after all?

[matthew88]

Not if she's clean down there. Women have asked me to do it and they really seem to get off on it.

[Anonymous]

having given anal to my girl and been on the reciving end of a dildo it dose not have to hurt at all. if it hurts you are doing it wrong. you just need to relay and enjoy it. some people can't do this, anal may just not be for them. both me and my girl can come from anal, for me even without touching my penis, she needs some attention to her clit but then she cums big. lots of lube and the rite frame of minde and enyone can enjoy it.

[Anonymous]

OHHHH yes hun, but you get used to it after a while! think of it as good pain ;)

[Anonymous]

it's not comfortable, and it does hurt. nothing is meant to go in there. it's small.

[cmpunk]

Women butts are not small ;)

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend to prepare for our first time we used a butt plug to loosen up her ass. Also the ass isn't like a p**** and doesn't lubricate itself, so lube is required unless you want a sore ass. My girlfriend is a fan of anal now.

[Anonymous]

It doesn't hurt. I've never even used lube. We usually do it after vaginal sex so I am usually really wet by the time he put his penis in my ass. It was kind of enjoyable because my guy does it slow and doesn't put the whole thing too deep in.

[Anonymous]

everyone says lube..but I never used lube...but then again the condom had lube

it just stings for a min or 2 then you get use to it and it feels...weird haha

[Asker]

Oh, so you didn't have to use lube, that is interesting.

[Opinion Owner]

But the condom has lube inside and outside already...how much do you need?! till its dripping?! lol

[Asker]

Oh, I didn't see the part about the lube already on the condom, by bad, lol

[wagsingle]

Wow! No lube! really? I wouldn't think a lubed condom had enough lube. I'm bi and have taken it up the rear without any pain, but would think friction would be a problem with the limited lube on a condom, unless it was a really good silicone lube.

[Anonymous]

Lucky1227, you've never had any kind of sex in your life.. how would you know if it hurts?

[Asker]

Huh? What are you talking about?

[Opinion Owner]

Lucky1227 thinks she is a sex expert and is basically just begging for someone to do her. It's annoying

[Lucky1227]

I know about anal.

[Opinion Owner]

You've never had it done to you!!?!?!! How could you possibly know

[Lucky1227]

I said I have never had sex... meaning real sex...

[Lucky1227]

So in actuality you have no idea what I have done

[Opinion Owner]

You basically begged to have sex, someone rape you, some hot fraternity gangbang you.. there is no way if you can't have regular sex, you've had any kind of anal sex. You are a desperate phony.

[Lucky1227]

.... You have no idea what I have done the end.

[Asker]

Lucky, are the girl who posted the question about wanting your friend's boyfriend he was abusive to her? No judgements, just wondering.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not judging either, but there is a screw loose somewhere. Any woman who would subject herself and be willing to be raped in order to lose her virginity, is cracked out. Rape is something that is traumatic and life-altering. You've mentioned before that you sucked off a guy with a girlfriend and you were proud of it. It's just classless. You exploit yourself on this site and basically make yourself sound like a desperate piece of trash. It's kind of sad.

[Asker]

Oh, I wasn't accusing you of be judgemental. I just wanted her to feel comfortable anwering my question. Also, you can't rape the willing, lol.

[Opinion Owner]

The pathetic and willing.

[Lucky1227]

QA yes that was me lol that was a while ago though. And answerer,please.... omg I can say what I want, I want what I want and have done what I have done, I am proud of everything I have done

[Asker]

Is your friend still with this man, or did she wise up & kick him to the curb? You've gotten over right? A guy who hits women does not deserve a woman. Never settle for that.

[Lucky1227]

Yeah she left him, she had a baby girl and moved to CA with her dad and is in school there. and I am over him, but he was very beautiful to look at :/

[Asker]

I'm glad you're both over him & beauty is overrated.