I'm bi and have bottomed (whenit's 2 guys we say top and bottom, I'm sure you can figure out which is which) My first time did not hurt at all. It's all a matter of relaxing your sphincter. Some need practice to learn to relax. That's the ones who say it only hurts the first time, or first few times. Some people just can't learn to relax, and for them it will always hurt. Also, lube is very important. I suggest you make him pony up for the good stuff...100% silicone lube like Swiss Navy Premium. (There regular is water based.) With water base lube. by the way, if you do him with a strap-on, he just bay find he lies it. Plenty of straight guys do, because his prostrate is up there and it's commonly called "The Male G-Spot"
0 0 0 0Ok anal will hurt for the first time, it's something big going into a small place where stuff is only sup post to come out, but the pain will be less and maybe non-existent after the first time if he takes it very slow, your relaxed and your well lubes up. Also if you do decide to do anal I would suggest that you give yourself a enema before you do anything up there and that he finger you a bit before, to loosen you up a bit. Especially the first time you try it.
If you have any questions feel free to send me a message :)0 0 0 0Not always! My first time taking it up the poop shoot (I'm bi) it didn't hurt at all. Most of us drop logs bigger than the average cock. It's all a matter of relaxing and not tightening up your sphincter. It's also important for the other person to use lots of lube and take it easy. And some people just never get used to it. It just isn't for some people.
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i have done it, there has been times I absolutely adored it and times I was like "BACK OFF"
really depends, I would recommend relaxing as much as you can, so your butt muscles do not clench.
lots of lube, and make sure your in the mood.
when it hurt, it hurt so terribly I cried. when it felt good I cried as well :P
the ass is very powerful lol1 0 0 0It will hurt no matter what because it is a tiny little hole getting penetrated.
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Anal sex will be more pleasurable if you relax and if it is done correctly.
Make sure the guy uses lots of lube.
Fingering to loosen you up a little (especially for a first time experience) is always good.0 0 0 1If it hurts everytime, why do people do it?
Cuz it feels good to be the one stickin' it in. Though I've heard gay men like the pressure on the prostate or something. Never been on the receiving end so I can't verify that.
If gay men enjoy it, why don't women? Also, doesn't it get any more comfortable if you do it a couple of times? I'm just curious.
The only time I have ever had anal sex was when I was raped, and yes it hurt. Very badly.
0 0 0 0Holy sh*t, goes without saying that must have been particularly horrible... but I think it's another situation where if it's done properly and consensually, it doesn't have to hurt.
I agree, but I would assume under any circumstances there is a pretty good chance it is going to hurt.
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6 7I've tried it a couple of times (unfortunately, talked into it) and each time, I despised it. It was very, very uncomfortable and I felt disgusting.
0 0 0 1Why did you feel disgusting?
Disgusting: because I felt like I was getting sh*t everywhere, even though we were taking it really slow, I felt like a giant turd...no joke
Yes, it will always hurt and it feels uncomfortable afterward. You really have to be "in the mood" for it and it has to be lubricated inside and out.
0 0 0 1why do guys want to stick it in a girls anus isn't the vagina made for sex id prefur the vagina
2 0 0 1I've never had anal sex and I never will/would
0 1 0 0I feel like if you lube it up you will be fine its not that bad.
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