Does anyone else hate getting fingered?

[Anonymous]

This is weird and unusual, I know so bear with me. I absolutely hate being fingered. I'd rather just have a penis in there. I know that part of it has to do with when I was 9 I was molested and he did that by putting his fingers in me. I've been through a decade of counselling but it didn't help with the hating fingers issue. It sucks because guys seem to enjoy jamming their fingers up my crotch and it seems that they don't care to make sure their fingernails are trimmed or that their hands don't feel too rough like sandpaper, which just makes it even worse. I hate it! It doesn't turn me on at all. I feel nothing but pain when guys finger me. It doesn't matter how much I like a guy or am turned on, if he sticks his fingers in me, instant turn off. Please tell me there's at least one other woman out there who has this same problem?

[fauchelevent]

I dislike it. I haven't had any issues with assault or molestation and it doesn't really feel painful for me to be fingered, I have no problems with my boyfriend's nails or the texture of his hands, it just does nothing for me and all I can think of is what's gonna happen next. I don't even enjoy using fingers inside myself during masturbation.

[Emilily98]

You're not alone. I can't stand it either. You'd think guys would be decent enough to trim their nails, but most are just thinking straightforward to the "goal". It's not unusual. I've known plenty of my gal pals are the same.

[jboy1989]

some guys use the finger tip (nail - dose not matter on how well trimmed they are) rather that then the finger pad. a mistake i made for a long time until i was shown the difference.

[Asker]

Oh my gosh, thank you! I was beginning to think that I was alone in this because the female friends that I've talked to all claim to love being fingered.

[cancan73]

Being fingered is for children, playing with a vagina doesn't really involve penitration, get yourself a guy who you love and knows how to touch a women and it will change your life

[Amine03]

Best answer.

[TiredMonkey]

Really sorry to hear about your childhood.

I am sure any boyfriend worth having would be ok missing out that very small part of a sexual relationship.

[Asker]

I had one break up with me because he said that he absolutely had to finger me or else he couldn't get hard.

[TiredMonkey]

That doesn't sound like he has any respect for you... sorry

[Gedaria]

She has her reasons you have to work round it. Talk see what she does like !!!