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Does anyone else think handjobs are sort of lame?

Since a girl has a mouth and a vagina it seems kind of pointless to use her hand since it doesn't feel as good. Plus its something guys could do to themselves?
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  • Sometimes people don't want to have sex. I know I was really uncomfortable with the idea for the first seven months of my ex's and my's relationship. After that I gave him a hand job or two and it was a nice segway into more sexual things. I really just didn't want to have his penis any where else it was gross and weird and not okay and I didn't trust him enough or any of that sh*t.

  • Sometimes we don't want to make available those orifices. At that time the hand job may be all we are offering. ^^ So I guess as a guy, would you rather she does it or you do it yourself, she may be quite happy if you offer the later. :P

  • I'm not a guy but I still think they're lame. I could never give a handjob better than the guy could. Plus, I'd much rather use my mouth anyway ; )

  • I completely agree--if you want a hand job, do it yourself.

    • haha XD yes mam (sulks and puts his head down in my defeat while he walks away cry to go masturbate by himself alone)

    • well they're absolutely no fun for the girl. It hurts your arm after a while hahaha

    • haha I know. I was just fooling around. No I don't like them. I would much prefer a warm loving BJ but most girls think giving them is gross :(

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Most Helpful Guys

  • I've heard a lot of guys say this and I tend to disagree for myself personally. Blowjobs and sex do feel better, but I like variety. No need to limit my options. And having someone else do it is nice. How many girls would say getting fingered is pointless because they can just do it themselves?

    • yea good point I suppose.

    • Totally makes sense.

  • No, not at all. I'll take a bad handjob over good masturbation any day. Doing anything sexual with a girl is more still more arousing than cranking one out on your own. It's also more intimate. Sure sex and blow jobs feel good but a girl is more than just a sex toy.

    • Oui, c'est vrai! Best Answer?

    • Merci

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Hahahaha Yeah Handjobs are for high school. I mean I don't mind it for a little to get things going but if our night is nothing but a handjob I'd get bored.

  • What are you talking about? Lol

  • You're weird...

    :-)

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    • ^_^

    • I take it you like giving them?

    • Yes...

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  • Naw...I don't care about bjs and not into anal...so hjs is the only other alternative to vaginal sex..and I have always loved them...a female's soft hand...unlubed...is hard to beat in my book...not quite as good as vaginal of course...(:

    • wow why don't you care about bj's? Most guys are obsessed with them.

    • idk...some of my female friends say I have never had a good one...lol..they did not volunteer tho!...just doesn't do it for me I guess...:S

  • I kinda agree... years of self-servicing have made it so that only I control the "release key" lol... and not to mention the fact I received my first handjob @ age 7, I think it's time to progress

    • you had your first handjob from a girl at age 7? O_O

    • Yep... so it figures that I wouldn't lose my virginity until I was 27 though LOL

    • was the girl the same age as you?

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  • I think if girls aren't willing to do vaginal or oral, it's better than nothing.

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