I'd say first off. Eat her out like you love it and do it often if she enjoys it. But you need to learn how to do it correctly so ask her ahead of time if she'll keep correcting you until you keep doing it better. You don't wanna ever give her a bad experience or embarrass her and not make her cum so learn how to do it for as long as it takes her. Make up your mind you're gonna love her smell and taste and then just get your face between her legs and start tonguing her gently at first. Around her pubes and lips and then start slowly tongue f***ing her. Try to keep going deeper all the time and make sure to be massaging those inner tissues of her with your tongue. Put your hands under her butt and press her pussy to your mouth and keep it there. A good pillow under her butt will help to. Make sure she tells you what feels good and what doesn't by some signal of hers. The main thing is a lot of tonguing and sucking and swallowing all her wetness even if she has discharge. Like one girl said, if you haven't gotten your face soaked and mouth full of her juices you're not doing it right. Learn to love it and she'll let you have it as often as you wanna. It's much easier and more enjoyable for most women to cum from being eaten out than from having sex. OH and don't be trying to get her to payback. This is all about pleasuring her. Not you. Besides most women DON'T like giving head cause it doesn't generate love like eating her out. Getting a bj is like a woman getting sperm in her mouth. Not so with pleasuring her. Lean to get pleasure from pleasuring her and try to be spontaneous as often as you can. Like when she's had a busy day. Or she feels very lovey. DON'T be waiting until she has showered and stuff because you will have missed the most sexiness that come from eating a girl out like she naturally is at any particular moment whenever that may be. Once she gets close to orgasming, she'll want you to tongue harder and faster. And maybe deeper. So just do it. When she'd done cumming she'll want you to STOP! When that happens you'll know you did an awesome job and she'll love you forever because of that. Just keep trying to improve and trying to get more enjoyment out of it yourself. I had a couple guy friends that told me when their girl finally cums, they're so excited by her actions that with just a little help with their hand they can cum almost at the same time. Kinda spontaneously. Of like half way thought pleasuring her she can sit on your face backwards and while you're eating her she can play with your genitals and make you cum at the same time if you can't the other way.
14 0 0 1Glad you asked. First off, do some foreplay by kissing her breasts and inner thighs to get her warmed up. Next, flatten your tongue out and lick around the folds and the vaginal area softly and slowly for increased stimulation for a short amount of time. Once you are done with the prep work(call this WORK! ^_^), go for the clitoris and begin licking up and down slowly while gradually increasing speed. Next, work the clitoris in circles in much the same way as a "Tongue Tornado" in increasing speed until she explodes. You can tell if this is working by the way her body convulses with each process. Her legs will tighten up, her toes will curl and her body will twist and turn as if the is tickled slightly. When she's close to orgasm, most women will begin to push back onto your head until BOOM! They sit up real quick and pull away from you! WOW! That's when you have given a winning muffin-diving performance.
I once would have never eaten women until I returned from Desert Storm back in 1991. Now, I can't have good sex without some good muffin-munching.
Key notes: TAKE YOUR TIME! The center of a woman is beauty, all that soft skin and folds of flesh is just wonderful. We don't get to see this and use them at our discretion so make the most of it. Secondly, be gentle. Biting and pulling is not so good. You can use your fingers to open up the vulva some but leave the teeth out. Finally, position is important. Lay her on the edge of a bed or table flat so your neck is not sore, eating trim takes some time. The 69 is also good position too. If you are strong and she flexible, try mounting her up onto her shoulder with her legs over yours, it sets her up for a massive orgasm.
If she's clean down there and trimmed or completely shaven, you are in for a treat that's better than your first taste of ice cream as a kid. Enjoy, enjoy, enjoy.5 1 0 0Wow. I must be weird. I love when my guy uses his teeth, only softly of course. But it feels amazing =]
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well, don't just focus on the clit. every part of her is sensitive. take your time, it's not a race. use your fingers. and of course touch her inner thighs, stomach, breasts. once she is stimulated every body part is sensitive. your tongue is also not the only thing you should be using, kiss her down there too, suck on her clitoris gently. if she's into dirty talk then ask her to guide you through it, do what she specifically likes, every girl is different. and oh yeah, breathe through your mouth, the hot breathe is even sensual. and once again. TAKE YOUR TIME! slow and steady wins the race.
5 1 0 0Great Advice :)
Mix licking with sucking and bury your whole face in her. If your nose isn't wet when you come back up for air, then you're doing it wrong.
Use 2 of your fingers to finger-f*ck her at the same time.3 1 2 1
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2 8Whatever you do DON'T USE YOUR TEETH that will not be pleasant for a girl, you have to get her wet first then go down there and slowly move your tongue over her clit if she moans a little she likes it, kind of flick your tongue you can finger her while your doing this too, they like it , you can lick her lips just basically experiment with it, she will tell you if she likes it, ask her if you have to, hey if she likes it then keep on doing it, the vagina is super sensitive when they're aroused so play with it with your tongue if you want her to cum though while doing focus on the clit , lick slow lick fast however you want.
4 1 0 0Amen!
Write the ABC's on her clit.
work's every time.3 4 1 0In capitals? ahhahhhahaaa
You asked to keep this mature, so lets refer to it as oral sex from this point further.
Lets be up front and honest, performing oral on a girl can be great or it can be disgusting. The most important part of pleasing a woman during oral sex is making her feel sexy (even though we all know the vagina isn't exactly the most appealing flavor). Don't do it cause you feel obligated. If you do it out of obligation, you will be terrible. You have to want to please the girl.
Anatomically, women slight differences and preferences. While some women prefer soft clitoral/labia stimulation, others prefer a bit harder external stimulation and some internal stimulation. Be aware of a woman's anatomy and know where everything is. You will need to run some trial and error to see what gets her going. Remember, this is psychological for a woman. Tease her. Kiss her inner thighs "beat around the bush" to get her revved up. Don't give her full on clitoral stimulation outright. You want to create suspense and make her beg for it. When it finally happens, she'll be able to release that tension in toe curling ecstasy.
Good luck.1 2 0 0I think it has a pretty good flavor and I know plenty of fellas that love it. Most actually. I hope you have some better experiences in the future.
Some girls taste great others not so much to find out without then knowing secretly sniff your finger after you finger her play it off as if you nose itches or something, if its smells sweet go for it, but if has bo type of oder then don't do it you can try but you'll prob gag and it will taste horrible if that's the case just say your not comfortable doing that but whatever you do don't tell her she smells bad down there.
Start by putting your right hand on her mound and push back to expose the pussy. Then stick your tongue as far into her p**** as possible; make sure it's completely moist. Then take the index and middle finger, or middle and ring finger on your left hand, and wet them completely. Now gently stick them in the p**** as far as it reaches and begin slowly doing a come here motion inside her; at the same time lick her clit. Make sure your tongue is wet, but not slimy. Lick her clit up and down quickly, but not to quick, because you want to make sure she feels every lick. At this time you will notice her p**** is loosing up as it get's wet. At this time you should make the come here motion more deeper and faster, do not forget to keep licking the clit in the same motion; as this is a combination move. I found that depending on the girl; the move must be done differently. With a skinny girl; your fingers should go as deep as you can reach before you reach the ending. Yes there is an ending.then use the come here motion on the ending of the pussy. Again! DO NOT FORGET TO LICK THE CLIT WHILE YOU ARE DOING THIS MOVE. On chubby girls; There is more thickness in her walls, so you should do the come here motion on her walls; which will stretch the pussy. Again! DO NOT FORGET TO LICK THE CLIT WHILE YOU ARE DOING THIS MOVE. With a skinny girl; she should catch an orgasm in about 3-8 minutes. With a chubby girl; she should catch an orgasm in about 7-10 minutes. Of course this is not so in some cases. Take your time. Gentlemen/Ladies, do not forget to keep your nails well trimmed, and clean. Girl's take exception to being scratched in there, and she won't care much for dirty hands in her p**** either. A quick side note: If while you are doing this move she lifts her legs up. This is her horny side telling you to lick her ass. You might want to do this in between this move, but do not forget the p**** is your main target.
4 1 1 0Anyone find it funny there are more guy answers here than there are girls?
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