Does it count as a hand job?

does rubbing a penis over the pants count as a hand job if it isn't to the point where he cums?
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  • I'd say it's just touching, rubbing, massaging or stimulating his penis area maybe comparable to how some girls grind. I'd say a hand-job is taking it in your hands and doing the same as he does when he jacks off. Even if he cums when you're massaging it or stimulating it on the outside of his pants, that fact that he cums is because he wasn't able to hold back, not because he got a hj. You just happened to over stimulated it by accident and you didn't happen to leave him with blue balls, so that would be good for you.

    • Yeah I don't want it to be a hj I'm just wondering what others opinions are on whether or not it is. and he like moved my hand on it in diff ways like showing me what to do and then let go. we were like cuddling and making out and stuff and when id move my hand away to put it like around his neck or somethin he'd kinda put his hand there and do it himself a little bit.

    • Just call it making out because that's what you guys were doing. Besides he was only showing you some make out movements. Actually, you get to call it what you want. No one else has that much to say about it. When you give him a hand-job you'll both know that you gave him one because that's what you'll have intended to give..

  • oo. I would say yeah. I guess. cause if he was wearing a condom and you did it. its still a handjob. even though your not touching it directly. welll, I guess you can call it a really goood massage, more than a handjob.

    • No he didn't have a condom on or anything he had his boxers and pants completely on I wasnt even under them. whaddaya mean by more than a hj?

    • No, I was saying as a situation.. if a guy was wearin a condom and got a handjob... its a hand job.. i think what you did is a massage, not a handjob, hence the ''more''

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  • well I've done the same thing and I was wondering that also.cause I made him pop his load through his pants and I was wondering if it was a handjob.so I guess its not but w/e its a start lol I think its trashy if you give a handjob to soon.

    • Yeah I agree. he's my boyfriend of four months though. but were taking things slow and I didn't really think that it could be considered a hj until afterwords and I didn't want to got to third at this age. so I'm just trying to figure out whether or not I feel its a hj or just heavy petting.

    • I'd go with heavy petting

  • i call it "fondling" or "waking the dragon"

    Rubbing your hand over the pants just gives him stimulation, not a real handjob.

    If I was amazing and would get him off by just rubbing, that would make me a goddess!

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  • its all in the name. Hand job. involving the hand.

  • thats called dry rubbing

  • if h's weenie's not actually in your hand, it's not a hand-job. what your doing is called "heavy petting", even if he comes.

  • Do you want it to? Then it counts!

    • The thing is, though, that I don't want it to count. I've been dating this guy for four months and we waited four to even make out and we haven't gone to second yet. (....bit of a prude here.....lol)

    • You see then if you have NOT really touched it then your hands are NOT dirty. Right!

    • I like ur point of view =).... lol

  • yep it does because you rubbed it on ur oants with ur hand so I would say yess...

  • Why the hell would you rub his junk with his pants on? You know how much of a clean up he gots to do just to make that stuff not smell funny and not soak through? Good lord. Ever heard of a zipper? Its not so hard to unzip and blow a load. But no that's called a Covered Happy Rubdown.

  • its like a handjob half done. You should finish what you start.

  • Yah don't do that, how would you like it if he rubbed you down there and you got all wet? A handjob is nothing, he probably masturbates all the time like 99.999% of the guys out there, so all a handjob is is you masturbating for him. So take my advice, just whip out his dick and rub him till he shoots, this saves the cleanup and feels much better.

  • no I don't think so. its not a hand job really.