Well I'm going to be honest, at first I never even eould have considers anal, and if I thought about it I would just consider it gross. But my current boyfriend has really opened my mind a lot during sex, and it took us a long time to work up to doing anal, but I found that it isn't so bad and I actually started to like it! So everyone has different preferences, I know not everyone will agree. Not many girls are that comfortable with something going into their ass. Lol
2 0 2 0"it took us a long time to work up to doing anal" This is a great, great point. Anal does take time. You work up to it with a lover who can please you in so many ways. He should be very familiar with your O face before anal is attempted. There needs to be a comfort that no matter what happens, you work through it. You are both willing to stop -- and try again another time. You are both willing to spend plenty of time on warm up -- and clean up too. All of it together. You learn how to please each other with all sorts of education on anal available to anyone. You focus on the other's O -- and yours comes naturally. In that context, how could it be bad? That said, when the chemistry is right, I have fuked girls in the ass pretty early on. But they have usually been practicing on their own and REALLY wanted to try. Or they have had experience, and they are not afraid to ask for what they want. All that said, I have never had a bad anal experience -- either with a girl who is really hot for it early on -- or working into over months. ALL GOOD!
When I was in my twenties and early thirties, I found the idea pretty offensive. I never would have even considered it, and was honestly pretty shocked that the idea even existed. I think the more comfortable with my body I became and the more sexually confident I got, the more my sexual curiosities piqued. Fortunately, I have an amazing lover who is open to trying new things. But I would say most women at least wonder what it would be like to try it.
1 2 2 0A lot of good answers but you bring up a good point in that this is a question that should only be asked of women over 40. Some younger women who say no way may change their mind later in life. By your own admission you would have answered that way had you been asked this years ago. I agree that by age 40 the number of women who at least wonder what it would be like to try it approaches 100%.
Think or fantasize about it? I would think "yes" for most or many, even though they may never actually attempt it. I happen to be a convert though, and quite enjoy it.
1 1 0 0Great answer. Some girls even fantasize about it to help them orgasm with masturbating -- but then never do it IRL. I mean, bending over. Spreading. Feeling that tongue go in the first time. Thinking -- o wow -- where DOES the semen actually go if he finishes in there -- etc. etc. etc. Most girls at least have questions.
@JonJames Sounds good to me!
I thought it might! Do you mind sharing a little bit about who converted you? And your feelings before you learned about anal -- compared to now? What changed? Was it his tongue that started it all?
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One of my exes introduce me to anal sex meaning she wanted me to put it in the butt. You just gotta run into very freaky chicks that's attractive to you and she'll let just give you everything but the kitchen sink
0 1 0 0I would argue that not many girls fixate on assholes like you might.
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5 0I voted B.
i'm not afraid of it.
just not my fave thing to do with my guy
I really don't know about other girls1 1 0 0OK not your fave. But how many times has it been in your ass?
Not this girl no.
2 0 0 1I'm not sure that every girl fantasizes about it in that sense that they are thinking or wishing to do it.
0 1 0 0Right. But the concept has to come up at some point. I mean, the anus IS there. You hear things. See pics or videos. Maybe a finger gets in there, etc. So every girl has to at least think "what if" -- right? And many will decide not to even try, which is too bad. But you naturally feel the anus contract every time you orgasm, so you start to think "what if" again. Some girls who fantasize about anal never actually do it -- but it helps them orgasm to imagine it while they masturbate, etc.
The idea of a guy penetrating my arse isn't something that appeals to me at all tbh. I fantasise about giving prostate massages sometimes though 'cause I've heard for guys they're supposed to be super awesome
2 0 0 0I don't like it so no definitely not! :/
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