Does fingering a girl count as having sex?

I'm just curious because I've never done anything with a guy, so I call myself a virgin. However, I've had a few sexual encounters with some old friends of mine, but I never went down on them. I've only fingered. Does that count?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It never ceases to amaze me how many women out there go on like "I've sucked off my boyfriend, had anal sex, been fingered, EVERYTHING except him putting his penis in my vagina, so I'm still a virgin".

    • it was honestly a question no need for all of that lol

    • this is true...

  • It seems that youve only been fooling around a bit, I wouldn't call it sex...

    • Thank you, I didn't think so.

    • Thanks for BA!

    • np :)

Most Helpful Girls

  • Personally, I count it but it really depends on your own defenition of virginity. So if you believe you are a virgin, most people would tell you that that's indeed true :)

  • Penis in vagina = sex

    Anything else is just sexual activities, so yes you are a virgin.

    • Half wrong, Half right. Penis in vagina= intercourse. Hymen broken= deflowered. Finger in vagina= IS NOT oral sex, but is penetration sex.

    • Well honestly I'm a virgin when we consider anal sex, etc so its really something that you have never done before in my books. No one is goinng to say: "omg I had sex last night!" "Did you use protection!?!?!?" "No he just fingered me" lol

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  • yes, it does.

  • Fingering...while fun it is not sex.

  • No it is part of foreplay.

  • Nope. Not.

  • It is sexual activity but not forfeiture of "virginity".

  • no it is not sex

  • It depends on who you ask but for me it is. Another person was sexually stimulating you.

  • it counts as a sexual activity but you won't stop being a virgin until youve had sexual intercourse