Does he miss me or want sex?

long story short we dated for 6 months last year then had a dramatic break up but then hooked up once over the summer then once back in aug. he then told me to f*** off after I convinced him to cause he kept blowing me off. 2 weeks ago I called him out for staring at me every time he sees me. Sunday night he texted me at 3 in the morning (the first time he's texted me first since aug!) and wanted me to come over and drink but I said no. 2 nights later he texted me at 1 in the morning and I didn't answer, yesterday I had to pick his friend up (my friend too) from his apt and I told him id call him when I got there and his friend said no come to the door (I've picked him up times before and he's never invited me in). He answered the door and gave me a hug, then a hug goodbye I looked up and he was looking at me then he patted me back on the way out and I kept walking. I asked him last night to watch my cat cause my apt was getting inspected and he said no then texted me today and asked how everything went. Does he miss me or just want sex? I'm so confused!
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  • I think he's fallen in love with you a second time the way this looks, and really, why do girls think it's about sex so many times?

    gangsters and rapper guys, they are the ones who often go for sex only and abuse girls, the no feelings guys you see on tv, but even if they might have made themselves stereotypes on tv, your average guy is NOT like that.

    I agree with insane mind, if he wanted sex, he would have acted different, also, you know him very well I guess?

    So actually, he wouldn't stand very much chance with doing that now would he?

    There are nicer things on earth than sex for most guys, and most guys are not the kind of guys that just **** every girl they see, because most guys actually want sex to have some value.

    Yes, we might be rough if we want to protect a girl or something like that on average.

    No, we are not rough in the way that we have no feelings just because soem guys are a bit rougher, that's just caused by hormones like testosterone that also makes your voice go deeper, but it's not like guys don't have the feelings you do.

    Guys get hurt. Guys cry too.

    Only guys who are unsure of themselves/have no feelings would do crazy thing like that.

    I'll put that on 5 to 10% of the guys.

    When I read the behaviour, he is not like that.

    I know the kind of guys who do these things and I know the kind of guys who do not, and reading this I don't judge him into the bad class.

  • Sometimes people think of you only when they're feeling lonely. Do you suspect something of this kind, based on his timings?

Most Helpful Girls

  • Will he might have his own worries, so don't make assumptions about the situation. But from what you said, I would say he using you a sex parthner, if he truly misses you he should treat you more with respect and dignity not like s****. No women deserves to take this bs. Tell him what you think girl, don't stay quite.

  • He is a Psycho! Playing psychotic games, he doesn't care about you or your feelings. He only gets off on using you and hurting you...leave him alone let him rot in his hole!

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  • if he wanted sex...he would have been more forward about it, if anything he is trying to make amens for telling you to F*** off...

  • not really sure but I do not think he loves you enough to be there for you and loyal

  • a text at 1 or 3 in the morning can mean only 1 thing - booty call. He wants sex.

  • Id be willing to bet he is just as confused. He wants to keep his options open but at the same time he still has remnants of feelings for you. He probably thinks that hooking up again will give him the guidance to see if he should try to make things work with you. The problem there is that it is extremely selfish since he is not considering how you feel. It will end up being WAY more drama that it is worth.

  • he probably just want sex because you seem like a very pretty and confident girl and I don't know you never know what these n*****s would do now of days