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Girls, does it hurt when your cherry pops?

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  • Some girls require more stretching than others. It's not a bad thing, it's just a fact of life. I bled my first time, and not at all my second (which was literally the next day) because I needed a little more stretching than other girls my first time. Other girls might not bleed at all. Overall, it didn't really hurt that bad, but he was also really gentle, listened when I told him what to do, and used a lot of lube to make it easier on me. Now grant it, he is also a little bigger than average and I was previously not even able to get a tampon in because I have always been so little, so it was a challenge to get him to fit. Second time around, though, it was perfect: no blood at all, no pain. Also, despite the blood and little bit of pain, I actually really enjoyed my first time! Once the first little bit of pain was over it was amazing!!! So while it is true that the hymen thing is only a myth, it doesn't mean that a little bit of bleeding means bad sex. Yes, you are tearing a little bit, but it's not evil like some people think. Now remember, though, that I'm not saying that getting blood all over the sheets is okay!! Minimal amounts of blood can be normal, not huge amounts!! Also, it is possible that it may seem like there's more blood if you're really turned on because you might get so wet that it dilutes the blood, which is what happened to me once the pain stopped. So don't be freaked out by a little bit of pain or blood, it's when it gets extensive that it's bad!! If ever feel like it's too much, communicate that with your partner and ask him to stop and let you move around to get comfortable.

  • If you're not turned on and if he fucks up, yes it will hurt.

    Mechanically speaking, sex should never actually hurt and you should definitely NOT bleed. Biologically, there is no actual "cherry" to pop :p it's just flesh that needs to be stretched for comfort - any bleeding or pain means that you're tearing your flesh. tearing flesh is bad and painful lol. it's a sign of bad sex, tbh.

    be safe and have fun. don't do it without a condom!!! if you think sex hurts, just wait till you go into labor lmfao

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  • Yes it did hurt me a lot unfortunately.

  • Your cherry can't exactly pop because your hymen stays with you forever. It's also not supposed to hurt. Lacie will explain it well:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9qFojO8WkpA

    • LOL As SOON as I saw this post I knew one of us needed to toodle over XD

    • @BellePepper one of us always needs to be around for these :P

  • Yes it fucking hurt! We couldn't even have sex the first few times we tried. It took a while before he could get it in and he isn't even that big!

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