Does sex experience matter?

[Anonymous]

What do girls think of guys with no or very little experience with sex? Besides the obvious concern that they won't be good at it? I've had sex with one girl but many times and she guessed I was a virgin because of the awkwardness, although she said I must be a natural because I still got her to cum and didn't have any stamina problems at all. So that being said I'm not really concerned with the physical part of it because I'm confident I can last, but rather what I'm wondering is the psychological aspect of it. For girls it's considered kind of cute and innocent when she hasn't had a lot of guys, but for guys it's the opposite (by that I mean among guys the bigger number the better) and I want to know what girls would think when they find out the guy they're with is inexperienced. Would they think he's a loser who can't get laid? Would they think he's weak? Would it make them uncomfortable with having sex with him? Keep in mind my age (22).

[Belleza]

Well why does society think if a girl slept with six guys then she's a slut - if a guy slept with six girls he's the man! Same with girls, we want someone who knows how to get the job done right - even if your 22 - to me honestly it doesn't really matter if he's experienced or inexperienced but the only reason I want him to be experienced is because I'm still a virgin and if by any chance I do have sex with a guy that I like - I would want him to be experienced so he wouldn't be so rough with me - so that he'll take his time in understanding that I'm new to this and to be gentle and loving as much as possible - no I wouldn't think your weak or a loser and I wouldn't think you can't get laid uncomfortable yes but cause I wouldn't even know how the hell to get it in!

[girls-like-boys]

I don't think it is anything to be worried about. I'm way younger than you but I know I wouldn't want to go into a relationship where a guy knows more than me because I would feel stupid. Ya its cute when we aren't experienced but its cute when guys aren't too. It also makes us feel that you aren't a player. I'm sure you will find a girl to help you get more experienced

[youandme3]

when you say "among guys the bigger number the better", I feel like that's just with your guy friends. most girls have no problem with little-experience guys, and in fact I don't know any girls who are really turned on by studs. just as long as you're comfortable with yourself and let her know it, you will not be thought of as weak by her. :)

[ionlife]

You'll find that it depends on the girl and what she seeks... Age or experience - which is a relative term - has nothing to do with it.

Remember, you could be 44 with a 500x fold increase of knowledge of what you know today and a girl will come along that will just put you too shame with her experience... and trust me, this is quite likely to happen. Just be confident enough - which sounds like you are - to accept the facts and if she has a nurturing personality and willing to teach you then you've hit the jackpot.

[deadwait]

Never tell a girl you have a lot of sexual experience - down play the number like they do

Experience does matter though - I think you got lucky with your first - you'll find not all girls "fit as well".

Keep the number down to something you can count on one hand. If I was you, I would just be honest for now. I think girls think their the ones who make the sex good, that's only half true - but let them think it its all them anyways.



Cheers

[Sugarcoat]

There is nothing wrong with that, and I don't think girls are going to look down on you for it.

[johnsmith2116]

It's a worry that all guys seem to have . But if you can believe it, girls seem to not have any problem with the fact that he doesn't have much experience .

And anyway, they feel good about it because it tells them that you aren't just going out for the sex, but want something more instead .

[Anonymous]

Personally I have no problem with guys who have little to no experience with sex . I consider it an opportunity to teach a guy what pleases me and hopefully they'll be able to tell me what they like too so we can both be happy with the sex . I wouldn't think he's a loser that can't get laid or that he's weak and I wouldn't be uncomfortable having sex with him . Don't worry about it too much .