Does sex skill come naturally to women or is it through practice?

My girl friend says that she has lost her virginity against her will at a younger age. and that ,I am the first guy she says she slept with. She says she has dated many guys before me, but she says she never had sex with any of them... she has a lot of male friends she says are "good friends," she is a big flirt, she is secretive and vague when I ask her questions. She is extremely good in bed and she can rock the dance floor dirty dancing, touching etc... She is having sex with me and we've been together for 4 years.. we have done a lot of crazy sex, even at the movie theatre when people were around. She is 30 years old and I'm 32. She has mad skills in bed; and I'm finding it very difficult that I'm the only person she has ever slept with and I have a hard time believing the guy friends are just friends? Girls can you tell me?
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  • Some people are just brilliant at it. Infact, most people are. 'Cos its a primal thing, its built in. Also, like, assuming the younger age was around ten, that's twenty years of buildup right there. Your rearin' to go by that stage! Haw! Plus, people who've experienced rape - if that's what you were talking about - are naturally more sexually inclined. That's speaking from first-hand experience, like... Anyway, I wouldn't worry. Just relax, enjoy it.

    • So when you say being who experienced rape are more sexually inclined.. do you mean that they are more likely to sleep around?

  • Sex is like playing the violin, if you're good then you have had practice. This "naturally good" nonsense is a big misconception. Everyone thinks they're good until they meet someone who really is good, then they know they were just fooling themselves.

    • That is what I was thinking.. I know for guys it comes from experience, but I was asking for girls..

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  • It's absolutely possible. I've never had sex before, but I was a dancer for 10 years, and people hardly ever believe I'm a virgin. I just happen to be very comfortable with my body, the subject of sex, and I'm good at dancing. On the chance people do believe me, they say I'm going to be a natural at it. I'd hate it if the guy I lose it to one day didn't believe I was a virgin simply because I was good at it!

    • Really? but do you flirt with guys? do you have a lot of guy friends? do you go out on dates, dances, kiss, but no sex? what is your limit going out with guys? and may I ask why you are still a virgin?

    • Yes I do all of those things lol I'm a virgin not a nun. Who said just because I haven't had sex I can't flirt, date and have lots of guy friends? I think you may want to rethink your view a little. And I'm a virgin because I'm waiting for the right guy. Not waiting for marriage.

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  • it's obviously natural for girls because everyone knows that it's easier for a girl to get laid than it is for a guy, we're animals

    • I wasn't asking if it was easier for girls to get laid, but how do girls become good at sex? Is it through experience or does it come to them naturally?