Does sex with the same gender turn you on?

I'm not gay, I don't consider myself bisexual, but I don't really considerate myself "straight" either. I think that as people, we're too complicated to be labeled. But for some reason, the thought of being with a female excites me a lot. If I really like a guy, and I'm thinking about sex with him it obviously turns me on too, but sex with a girl is so intriguing to me, I've caught myself flirting around a lot with girls, some turn me on the way a guy does, even though I've never gone further than just making out with a girl, I'm not really a "slut" (I hate that term but, for the sake of the argument), I don't just sleep with whoever so I guess that's the reason why I've never slept with a girl, since I've never really got involved with one all the way. I'd hate to just "experiment", I'm more for the entire experience, emotions and all. Anyway, not to drift too far from the topic; sex with the same gender: turn on or turn off? Have you ever tried it before?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Very much a turn on for me. Whe I desire girls, I find myself fantasizing about having sex with guys. Being sexual with someone of the same gender is just another aspect of our sexuality and is hardly deserving of the labels we stick to it. Wether one is "straight" or "gay". When I was 14 and 15, I did some experimenting with a couple friends and loved it. Would definately do it again, just need to find a willing partner or two.

  • Meh, it can be a turn on if I'm in the mood to fantasise about it, which is very rare.

    I've had sex with a shemale/transgender mtf, who still had a penis. That's the closest to a gay experience I've had. It was interesting, but I'd still self-identify as straight.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It definitely turns me on. Which my husband enjoys lol. Girls are beautiful... I have done it, and it doesn't give me as much satisfaction as being with a guy but it's lots of fun and very hot!

  • turn off for me, but I have plenty of bi, lesbian, and gay friends and I can see why they are that way. but its just not for me personally.

  • For me, it's a turn on and I've done it before---but I identify as bisexual.

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  • I don't find another girls attractive at all.

  • Turn off

  • Turn on, both in thinking about two girls, or thinking about being with another guy...

  • Turn off.

  • Turn off.

    I've no problem with gay people, but I'm a little squicked out at the idea of what they get up to.

  • I tried oral sex with another guy once, it was very fun!

  • I would say a turn on.. I haven't done anything with another guy but I like thinking about it. But it would be great to try out threesome with 2 guys and 1 girl.

  • turn on, I want to f*** a girl so bad

  • im bi so yeah a turn on

  • No, not really.

  • bi

  • A turn on, but it is hard to bring up to your partner if committed. I don't know why I enjoy it so much but all I can say is that sometimes you want what is considered wrong. Just enjoy the experience.