Does straddling while making out get a guy turned on..why did he tell me to stop?

i was making out with this guy I was dating in the car. we moved to the backseat and I jumped on his lap and was starting to wrap my legs around him (straddle him). when I did he said "wait stop you are going to straddle me" and he had me move..lie myself across his lap instead but he kept kissing me..and fingered me while I was lying on his lap..i almost had an orgasm. why did he make me switch? what's wrong with straddling him? he was definitely very into it and turned on and we had made out many times before that.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • My guess is that he got an erection, but in that small area, he couldn't easily adjust it in his pants where it would be comfortable, and having you sit on his lap, which will pull/tighten his pants, makes it hurt even worse. It would have been different if you guys could have gotten naked and he could have been more comfortable, but car sex is full of compromises.

  • He would have been super turned on. Maybe he was just shy and didn't want you to know he was hard.

    Also you could have been hurting him. Having someone sit on a hard d*** at the wrong angle can hurt. Maybe you just need to ask him why he made you stop.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Maybe his penis hurt from how you sat on it? Or he could have just not wanted sex/to come that night. Don't take it personal, it just happens sometimes. Guys really are people & have their days where they really can't perform. He liked it before you say? You're fine :)

    • well he kept making out with me he just had me lie down across his lap while he was still sitting.

  • maybe he wouldn't be able to control himself from screwing you if you were right there, or the way he was posistioned in his jeans, may have had you squashing his dck. plus, I am pretty sure it's easier for him to finger you when your laying sideways.

  • Because he wanted to finger you and that position wouldn't have allowed it.

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