Tight doesn't mean inexperienced, no. Lots of virgins think they are "tight" when in fact, they are "sealed," meaning, their hymen is intact, reducing the size of their vaginal opening. That's not the same as the vagina itself being tight. But it's also normal for a girl who hasn't had sex in, say, a couple of weeks or more, for her vagina muscles to be less flexible and make her less easy to open up, so she feels tighter than normal. A few sessions of regular sex will limber up those muscles and it won't be so hard for him to enter. It won't make her "loose", just not so clamped down that it's painful or takes a long time before she's ready to go.
1 0 0 0When he says your tight, it means your tight. Some girls have tighter vagina's than others, its subtle, but you can tell. It just grips the penis tighter. I don't think it has anything to do with how many times she has had sex, its just how she was born.
Yes if you do everything, then stop just before intercourse, this can be a bit frustrating. Especially if you don't finish the guy off. It's called blue balling. I'll be more understanding with my GF, if she is hesitant to have sex for the first time. But it still ain't fun to have things really heat up and then you get shot down right before the finale.0 0 2 0
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If you were aroused as you say you were I really doubt there would be any pain for you. The tightness is only muscle and the more relaxed you are during sex the less pressure the muscles have on whatever happens to be in you at the time.
0 0 0 0just means more enjoyment for him and oh yes for you too ^_ ^
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0 2A good guy will be with you no matter what you do physically (well, unless you're wanting to whip him or something, haha). It depends on his size and how lubricated you are. If your body isn't making you wet enough and it hurts when y'all do eventually try, you could try getting some lubrication to add. For girls that are tighter, it usually does get better over time as well, but this isn't the case for everyone.
0 0 0 0As long as you're properly aroused, it shouldn't hurt. Just have him go slow at first, and make sure you've had a proper buildup before attempting penetration.
Also, "everything but intercourse" is fine, if I'm actually interested in having a ~relationship~ with her and I know that the situation is only temporary. However, that's only going to fly for maybe a year at ~best~, then I'm probably going to start pressuring her.0 1 0 0Okay if I told him it is too soon for me to have sex but I'm very tempted, does that show him I am willing to down the road?
Yes, it shows that you're willing to, down the road. Just be aware that if you keep putting it off for an ~extended~ period of time, he's going to start asking you ~when~ you'll be ready. And probably not long after that, he'll be telling you to call him when you are. But for the time being, that's perfectly fine.
As long as his intents aren't just sex and he likes me and wants to date me I will be ready very soon lol.
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