Doesn't it feel weird to have someone see you naked?

all our lives we are taught to wear clothes and keep our bits private... so doesn't it feel awkward to be naked in front of someone to have sex?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • The first time, I think it's more about the unknown than actually being naked. Some might say that it's weirder if you're not having sex. I don't mind being naked at all, but I'd rather a girl see my erection than just my limp penis because it's just a better look. Sometimes though, depending on who it is and what the situation is, that just isn't appropriate. At any rate, it's never really bothered me one way or the other.

  • You should go swimming more often and free your soul and inhibitions, life is good - enjoy!

Most Helpful Girls

  • I was really worried about it up until I did. I always thought I'd be a "wears bra during sex" type of girl. But then my comfort level grew and I was okay with it. I guess that's why it's not awkward, because the person you are being intimate with you are already super comfortable and real with, and if you aren't, you shouldn't be sleeping with them

  • The first time perhaps. I don't have any issues with being naked in front of the guy I'm sleeping with, and I frequently am naked when around him haha. But we've been dating for a long time and I make sure I absolutely trust someone before I even consider sleeping with them.

    • your only 18 and you don't get embarrassed? wow your confident... I'm older then you and I still don't have the coruage to let anyone see me without clothes.

    • You should though! A body is just a body. And if someone finds you attractive enough to have sex with you they won't focus on the bad. Guys are just happy that you're naked haha, and are too busy being excited to critique or even notice your flaws .

    • In most cases, that is.

  • I'm sure if I knew the guy well I'd be totally cool with that.

    When you're naked in front of someone, you usually really just trust them completely--- and of course it's scary or weird the first time but it gets better.

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  • I don't mind it one bit.

    What is the reason for keeping these bits private? Everybody knows we've got them and what they look like in general so why hide them.

  • The first time it is a bit awkward, but it doesn't really matter that much in the moment.

    • before and after the moment it would be awkward though...

    • It wasn't really for me, but that's just me.

  • nope. I love being naked and I'm confident in my body regardless of my flaws.

    • mmmmmm

  • Hell no. Its exciting. The more naked the better. When I decide to have sex with someone, a lot of thought goes into it so if I worry about feeling weird about the nakedness all the fun of sex gets sucked out of it. Plus nakedness is the last thing you think about in that moment.

    • yeah that's what iam talking about :)

  • i don't mind who sees me, we are all human and not ashamed of being nude, its natural :)

  • I don't really care anymore.

    • so you don't get embarrassed at all?

    • It's just a body.

  • Most people will feel a little funny at first...but most people will also adapt quickly to being seen with no clothes on as well...(:

    • i don't think I would adapt to it

  • doesn't bother me. once you get confortable and trust the person you are with!

  • first time is a little ehh, after that you adapt and you feel free (:

  • Never bothered me at all

  • Eh yeah at first but as time goes on no, why do you ask?

    • just think it would be embarrassing I don't know how people do it

  • yes I am, But that's why I like the lights off or if I'm really drunk and don't really give a sh*t about anything but getting it in lol

  • no I don't mind I like my body

    • are you a model or something

    • ha no I wish, I'm not that perfect but I am confident enough being the way I am

  • Not for exhibitionists/strippers

    • Maybe for some strippers. But yeah I'm not one of those people who has a problem with his own nudity... Though perhaps others have a problem with my nudity.

  • I don't care about being naked and it was never a big deal growing up. We were all taught to be comfortable around each other nude and there was no reason to be ashamed of what you have.

    • yeah its normal for little kids and babies to take baths together and things like that. But once you reach puberty everything is private.. I'd be too emarrassed for anyone to see me naked now that I'm a woman.

    • Yeah again that never was an issue for any of us. We each got to see the progression of one another through those stages. We are all close and cool now. Like what's to hide?

    • what country are you from? did people walk around naked or something :/

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