Don't blowjobs count as oral sex?

[Cassie76889]

My friend says that you can give/get a blowjob and still practice abstinence. I didn't think so.

[ImMackFreeze]

It al counts as sex, there is no cutting around it, anything involved with the privates is sexual so yes, you are not practicing abstinence. You really can't have your cake and eat it too. Either none is allowed, or all of it is. I recommend you wait for marriage. Oral sex isn't real sex, you still are a virgin, however you are still engaging in a form of sex and is not a good thing. Either way, your friend is right

[MadeInAmerica]

Umm yes. Blowjobs is oral sex. I always laugh at people like that who find loopholes in being "innocent" when nothing is innocent about putting a cock in your mouth.

[MissMonstaz]

But that's what oral sex is haha blowjobs and eating pussy are both part of what we call "oral sex" since it involves using your mouth and tongue on someone's genital. So did you mean if blowjobs count as having sex? Lol

[Cassie76889]

Yeah lol, I thought blowjobs counted as sex but my friend apparently didn't haha. I think it was just a miscommunication or whatever

[MissMonstaz]

I think it counts as sex too. It is still a sexual act lol but seems like a lot of people have different opinions about that haha

[Cassie76889]

Yeah lol, I was surprised that he didn't think so. He's in a relationship too, but I'm not sure why he asked me instead of looking it up haha

[fauchelevent]

Lots of people believe that oral sex doesn't really count. In my opinion, oral sex is still sex and therefore you cannot be abstinent and engage in oral sex at the same time.

[Cassie76889]

Yeah that's my opinion too. My friend must just believe that oral sex doesn't count lol

[MissLogical]

Yeah blowjobs are the literal definition of oral sex. It's making a guy come by having his duck in your mouth, ergo oral sex.

[Red_Arrow]

Do you put the whole duck in and is it quacking?

[MissLogical]

Yes, auto-correct is so funny. *dick, happy?

[JulieXO]

Wht your friend might mean is that he's abstaining from vaginal sex, in which case he'd be correct.

[PhenomenalPancake]

Well, you can't get pregnant from it, so if that's why you're abstinent, it's fair game. If it's for religious purposes, ask your priest.

[TheJoker1988]

Well duh

[Goldenscar]

It's oral sex alright, there's no debating that. On the other hand their definition of abstinence is clearly different to yours, so that's where this miss communication seems to come from.

[Happyme2017]

Yes it does. Technically there is sex that don't have penetration. Besides if it was a stranger it would be sexaul assault. In the eyes of the law it counts as sex even with minors.

[InquisitiveGurl13]

Uh... It's oral sex. But you can abstain from sexual intercorse, and you can abstain from any sexual activities (including oral sex)

[Dragon6901]

I think it does but people have differing abilities to be honest particularly with themselves

[JohnTBarnesIII]

Practice however you feel most comfortable. Don't worry what others say.😏

[jacquesvol]

BJs count as (oral) sex, in my opinion

[Groisu]

Ain't abstinence supposed to be about avoiding the temptation altogether or some shit? I'm pretty sure that even a hand on each other is against that

[cupidkisses]

Yes it is oral sex

[Blake0048]

Yeah its still sex. If your girl sucks your friend off is that still cheating? Lol of course. It's as silly as sticking with only anal because its "technically" not sex

[smooth_viking]

Blowjobs are the definition of oral sex. Abstinence is only for regular sex ie penis penetrates vagina. So yes, you can give and receive bloejobs and still be abstinent.

[Rick912]

A blowjob is oral sex. However, a blowjob is not sex. Intercourse is sex. A blowjob is a form of petting.

[Cornchipuniverse]

Oral sex technically isn't sex.

[Red_Arrow]

Oral sex is oral - - - sex. The type of sex that is oral. Your description was like a search dog is not a dog.

[CT_CD]

Yes..

[KevonO]

A BJ is oral sex, what kind of question is that?

[Uncut]

A blowjob is oral sex

[Danael31]

Lol, blowjob IS oral sex. But well, ye you can consider that's not having sex. But that's not abstinence. Neither for the guy nor for the girl.

[Hauler72]

Call it what you want... ill take some

[clevv]

Let me put it this way. If you get a bj from a hooker. Or you're fucking the hooker. When the cops roll up you're in handcuffs reguardless. Her mouth was on your dick therefore. Its considered a sexual act. But im pro blo

[JoeReamms]

Yeah that's oral sex, cuz oral is in the mouth and ya stick the dick in your mouth

[GarthMaul]

I agree there is difference between between oral vaginal and anal sex with only one's personal beliefs as the criteria for what counts as "sex". Most woman and men I know do not count oral sex as sex and still some also consider anal to be sex either. It's all about your personal viewpoint on what counts in regards to abstinence.

[Anonymous]

Blow jobs are definitely oral sex

[Anonymous]

Blowjob is oral sex so that means you also cheat someone just with blowjob