First of all, you need to relax about it. This is one of those things are are completely different with every guy. Men masturbate in a completely different fashion when doing it themselves, so you gotta kinda find a groove. Spitting on it is hot...do it! When it comes to a handjob, ask him to put his hand on yours and show you how he wants it. You need to keep the same pressure and speed for quite sometime. For a blow job...the deeper you can go without gagging yourself the better, as time goes on, you'll practically lose your gag reflex. Remember, just because its a blow job does NOT mean that it's just your mouth, use your hand. And please, please, don't forget his scrotum.
The last time I gave my partner a bj (It was the second time for me giving a bj) I decided it was not only going to be fun for him, but for me too. So the secret of giving an amazing blowjob (after it he told me it was the best bj he had ever received and he even begged for a second one) is to enjoy it and have fun. Don't be scared, don't be shy and try to use at least one hand.
And about lube, I don't like to spit either, but I licked it a lot
He probably isn't walking around with lube on him. If he is uncircumcised no lube isn't an issue. If he's tightly circumcised you may find it hard to get him off with a handjob without lube.
Nobody carries lube on them, so using your spit probably is going to make it way better
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