During a blowjob, why do guys?

often put their hand on the back of the persons head? My boyfriend does it and they do it in a lot of porn videos? I'm not complaining, I kinda like it. But, was just wandering? :) Sorry if it's a stupid question.. Oh whilst I'm here, could guys (and girls) share some tips how to make giving head even better for him? :) Thaank you
0 1

Most Helpful Guys

  • It gives deeper penetration and with the anticipation of popping he wants to be sure he pops inside your mouth. He doesn't want you pulling off him at the 'wrong' moment.

    As for tips...here's the secret---the glans of his penis. Concentrate your efforts on and just at most a half inch below the ridge of his penis. This is the only area that matters. The shaft has very little erotic sensory advantage for you to pop him. Also above the ridge there's no advantage. Concentrate all your efforts in the above area and he will never last long and you'll pop him every time if it's the first act of the moment. With each pop after that it will take more and more effort to pop him if he has anything left to pop.

  • i like it ( as long as she's comfortable) because I push down a little bit or pull up and down a little fast and even if a guy doesn't reall do that like if he just puts his hand there it gives him the illusion and vision he's in control which is sexy because when a guys getting his d*** sucked its a girl just doing everything to please him thus us being in control 9 even tho we generally arent) is a turn on so we can kinda create the illusion we are in control however some guy actually push girls heads down and up or whatever

Most Helpful Girls

  • because it will be easy to bob on the rod without much strain either of them have to keep thrusting it with force

  • Isn't that supposed to be disrespectful or something? That's what I heard...

    • Its not dissrespect what do you expect us to do put our hands by our side

    • Ive never had that done 2 me, I've also only seen it in porn

    • I think it's just weird if his hands are just by his side. and there's a difference between him grabbing your hair and using his hands to shove himself deeper down your throwt. the first is hot the second is disrespectful

  • It makes me feel dirty like I am a slut or something.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

0 9
  • we need some place to put our hands, and we can't reach your brests in that positio!

    TIP: one of the hottest things you can do, is look up guys love to see your innocent eyes staring at them while your going down.

  • personally I just like the feeling of a girls head going back and forth giving pleasure. There is no other reason. Its the same reason most people will rub backs, arms, breasts, ect ect during sex. You just wanna feel your partner pleasuring you. Just me though.

  • i think the reason why I do it is beause I want to touch her and if she is on her knees the only part of her body I can touch is her head

    the best tip is to show that you enjoy it and it seems like you already enjoy it so the best tip is to show that ur having fun as much as possible

    if ur looking for tecnique tips then the best thiing to do is to ask what he likes that you don't normally do

  • becaue the guy wants your mouth to stay around his **** and not off, he wants to make sure you stay on it.

    wow my d*** just went hard just thinking about this kind of blowjob mmmmmmmmm

  • We do it to make sure you go deeper. For us, the deeper the better and sometimes you girls don't go deep enough without us pushing down a bit :)

  • i don't like doing that because I don't like the feel of a skull during sex. I like to feel something soft like waht a women feels like.

  • Lol, I dunno. I never really realised that I do that with my gf. Maybe he wants you to go faster or something.. That's the key to good bjs (and WATCH YOUR TEETH lol :P). Keep a good 'beat' going, don't slow down and maybe you could moan while you do it, the vibrations feel good lol. Every once in awhile take it out of your mouth, lick it from the bottom to the head and look at him in the eyes, then swirl your tongue around his head a bit before you keep sucking on it. Damn I could use a bj right now lol. Have fun :p

  • Trying to control the rhythm and intensity.

  • because it feels good and want you to stay down there. As well as like to do somefin with your hands and I like putting it their her hair. I also like it when the girl puts her hands on your head means they are really getting into it :)