Ejaculation Etiquette

Girls where do you like him to come and where don't you like him to come? Do you discuss this before hand or go with the moment? If he asks you to come somewhere you rather he didn't, how do you react, what do you say? Guys where do you like to come? Why? Do you ask for permission first? Do you just go ahead with it and find out after the fact? If a girl refuses you to come in a certain place, how do you react? What do you think? What is proper ejaculation Etiquette? Let's talk ;)
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  • Ok so I don't know if you mean just for sex, or for other stuff too so I'll just say both- For blowjobs, I prefer if he just cums in my mouth so I don't usually bring it up I just keep going until he does. For sex, I do like when the guy cums inside me, so I pretty much always will tell the guy where to come if I have a preference besides that, like on my boobs or something. I try to tell him b4 he gets too...close, lol. I've only ever been asked about coming on my boobs, which is completely fine so I'm like sure! I've never been asked by a guy to come like, on my face or someplace I didn't want so I've never had to be like ummmm?! Haha, but honestly if someone did ask me that I'd probably be too embarrassed to say no..

    Oh, and I will just say for blowjobs, proper "etiquette" is please tell me b4 your going to cum! That is NEVER a bad idea lol. That's all :o)

  • Do: t*ts, belly, inside if I'm on the pill and we're in a longstanding committed relationship. Mouth, sometimes.

    Don't: face, inside if I'm not on the pill/we're not that serious yet.

    Usually, this is established in the first handful of sexual encounters you have with a guy. He'll say "where do you want it," or if he doesn't I'll say "cum on my t*ts" or "don't come inside me" -- though I stick to condoms 80% of the time until we're serious.

    If he wants to come on my face, I'd just say no, I don't like that."

    • Oh yes, and back, though it's kinda hot when a guy pulls out from behind and presses against the outside of the front of your body when he goes.

  • Honestly? I'm up for anything. If he tells me where he wants to come and I don't want him to come there I just say no, and he goes else where. The only place that is a no no is my vag. I am in a committed relationship but that last thing that we need is a bun in the oven.

    He never asked, and he's never done it before, but you should have seen his face when I told him to come on my face. LOL

    • Haha. I know if my girl came out of nohwere and told me to come on her face. I would be even more turned on. :) great answer.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I prefer to come deep inside. It just feels better to have her around me as I cum. Deep in the p**** feels great. Deep in the mouth with her still sucking feels excellent. Her swallowing while I am still deep inside feels amazing.

    For oral shooting it into her mouth from outside doesn't do much for me. I see that as for visual effect in p*rn.

    Cumming on belly or breast is OK, but not as good as inside.

    Sometimes hand jobs from her can feel very good. If so she can direct it wherever she chooses.

    Yes, I OK where to shoot first. If she says no to my first choice there are always other good options. Communication and cooperation are essential ingredients of all relationships from business to sexual.

  • As an older married couple...open, honest and direct communicaition is vitally important in a loving and devoted relationship...

    I might state..."Princess...I am about to "c*m"...where do want me shoot it ?"

    My darling wife will typically state..."Baby...shoot it all over me..."

    There...marital communication at its most basic level...

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  • You guys watch too much p*rn. Do you really want to kiss her in her mouth after filling it up?

  • I don't know what "proper" etiquette is really. I think every couple figures out the boundaries in any given situation. I'm fine with most places. If he wants to come on my stomach, boobs, ass, etc, he can just pull out and do it. He doesn't need to ask me. I'm not as fond of the face, but will allow it from time to time, as long as he doesn't start thinking its going there every time. My only iron clad no no is inside. Pull that thing out!

  • Do - Stomach, ass, back and mouth (Pussy, if committed)

    Don't - Face and breasts (Unless, I bathe in his cum)

    I would tell him "No, or it will be your last time f***ing me." - Hopefully, I don't run into this problem because all of that would and will be discuss beforehand.

    • bathe in his come?

  • i find breasts ass face my top favs but I always kinda ask but as we are both getting close she dose not seem to mind where loll andif she did say no then fair do iam sure there is other places she would not mind it lol

  • Girls where do you like him to come and where don't you like him to come?

    I like on my boobs,ass,back and sometimes on my face

    I don't like in my eyes or on my hair,and of course not in me

    Do you discuss this before hand or go with the moment?

    If he asks me we discuss about it,but generally I let it go with the moment

    If he asks you to come somewhere you rather he didn't, how do you react, what do you say?

    Most of the times I let him :P

  • I would rather the guy come inside me, but I'm fine if he wants to come on my stomach, boobs or ass. As far as on my face, I've had it done to me, but I'm not a big fan of that. I don't like it near my eyes or in my hair. Usually it is decided in the moment.

    • You sound like a cool chick!

  • If me and my girl are having sex, I will ask her where to cum and she just says anywhere, so when I cum, I normally just do it on my girlfriends stomach

  • I usually don't discuss it unless the guy asks. I'm perfectly fine with just living in the moment and letting the come end up wherever it ends up. I've never understood what the big deal is. Cum is a natural part of sex. I don't find it gross at all. When the moment comes, he can do it inside me, or he can pull out and do it on me. I like it either way. The eyes is the only place I'd rather avoid. Everywhere else is good, mouth, vagina, boobs, tummy, ass, etc.

  • Typically I've never asked for permission. I just do it wherever. Most of my partners were fine with my choices. I'm not into facials, so I think that helps. If the sex is bareback, I pull out regardless of birth control. I almost always shoot on the girl's belly or back. Most seem OK with that.

  • Face/Mouth.

    Its the most arousing to me.

    Yes.

    Not unless I want to be slapped.

    Wont say anything and come somewhere else, if she says it will never happen then I'll find someone who's more like minded.