Ever have a hard time having sex with a significantly shorter girl?

[Anonymous]

Pretty simple question that applies lately. Anyone else have problems having sex when there is a serious height difference? What can you do to "fix" this problem if you do have a problem? The girl I have been seeing is a good foot shorter than me and it was a bit difficult really getting into the rhythm of things, and I felt like it was due to her being kind of small.

[MrOracle]

Get some pillows, the firm, flat type that you might have as throw pillows on a couch. Put them under her knees in doggy style or under her ass in missionary to adjust her height and improve your angles. Or, as others have recommended, stand at the edge of the bed and pull her over to you on her back, or have her kneel on the bed as you stand on the floor behind her.

It's really not that hard; just use what you have available.

The fun thing with petite girls is you can throw them up on a counter or kitchen table, or lift them up and carry them bang then standing up or against the wall. All kinds of possibilities, you just have to get creative.

[Asker]

I guess I'll just have to get over my sort of "aversion" to using positions that place her on the bed and me standing on the floor. It always felt a bit impersonal, but I guess its a bit more important to have fun than be "traditional" or whatever. Thanks for the advice!

[Anonymous]

I'm tall and have been with shorter girls and the issues are somewhat minor.

Like during missionary we weren't really face to face. her mouth was closer to my neck. I used to think doggy style with a short girl would be awkward due the height difference and her butt would be lower but things worked out well doggy style.

just experiment and find things that work for you two.

[Asker]

I guess that is exactly what I found awkward...the whole my face being way over her head thing. Tried propping her upper back up a bit to maybe have me bend backwards just a bit and take away that issue but then...well...the angle on the hips wasn't optimal >:(

[Lizzielu]

I would recommend the edge of the bed thing definitely. Try sitting up and having her straddle you if you like to be face to face.

[Asker]

I guess you mean like the lotus position? Least I think that's what it is called. I am rather a fan of being face to face :)

[Lizzielu]

That works but you wouldn't have to fold your legs

[Anonymous]

The edge of the bed or lift her up. Please answer mine I need some advice link

[baliguy11]

girl on top almost anyway she likes and you have a "fix" and that difference with her straddling you on your lap is right about face to face with everything else in the right place. maybe ask her what she wants.

[taster]

I must confess that I am baffled...I have never had any trouble having sex with any female with regards to height...o.O

[Asker]

I guess the only way I can explain it is it just felt a bit odd. Like I was just not in the right position for myself, her body type being smaller made things just kind of harder to thrust, etc. Its hopefully something I can get better at with her.

[taster]

oh...well that helps...height has just not ever been a physical aspect of a female that I cared about...I guess I might actually favor tall over short...certainly no deal breaker though...and my wife is only 5' 4"..lol...one of my best gfs was 6'1"...(:(:(:

[Tarvold]

I've been in that situation. It's not a problem at all.

There are so many positions where height difference doesn't matter, or can be mitigated. It can be pretty fun trying them all out...

[zolly9999]

i ve never noticed any difficulties...

( I'm 6'4 and she was 5'0 )

[Anonymous]

Dude, just pick her up and do her standing! Super hot.

[Anonymous]

Try girl on top, or doggy with your legs spread out a bit more, or prop her up with some pillows. Also, try putting her on the edge of the bed and you stand over her.

[Asker]

See I actually had a really hard time with doggy style :/. Maybe its a problem of my legs being on the inside of hers instead of the outside. I have a feeling that part of the issue I had was since it was the first time for us, we were just not in sync at all.

[Opinion Owner]

Just keep adjusting till you get the right angle. Use the sofa, standing up, etc. Things don't always line up right the first time. I'm a taller guy as well, so I know what you're talking about.

[Asker]

So in your opinion is it more a matter of time adjusting, or getting the right position?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, and talk about it. Say, are you comfortable? Does this feel good? I've had short girlfriends before, it can be worked on, just have to find out the right spots and use the right angles and furniture. :)