Ever rejected a guy because of his penis?

I am just wondering, has the penis ever been a reason for you to turn a guy down? It can be because of the size, shape, skin quality, anything. If so: Why?
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  • i am a pretty (so many people say so!), non-obese, educated and professional woman. i could basically get laid nearly anytime i want to-- by old men, young men, married men, single men. so i can afford to be picky, and i am. i recently had sex with a man with a short (no more than 4 inches i bet) pencil dick. we had been chatting for a while and dated a bit before sex. i thought we had a great connection and he told me as much that he liked me a lot. now this was my first time with a small one. i was a little surprised (didn't show it of course), but we were all hot from the foreplay so I seriously didn't think much of it. i was simply blown away by our love-making! i thought he was a sweet, sensuous, and ardous lover. I thought we had a grand time. he didn't come, which worried me, but he told me he hardly ever does, esp with the anti-depressants he's taking. we agreed to meet again soon.

    fast forward a few days, i texted him at the agreed time and all of a sudden he turned cold turkey on me. he gave me some dumb excuse why he could not meet, and that was it. what hurt more is how he did-- so coldly and almost robotic. no it was great to meet you anyway, no thank you for the lay, no sorry i would love to but can't. i had NSA's before, but i had never seen such behavior. i have always been keen to fuck only nice guys and even more keen to be a cool no-drama chick, and my partners were always nice to me at the end. i was dumbfounded and can't help thinking, wow, i have been ditched by a small dick!

    • It happens to the best. The more shots you take, the more experiences, good or bad we have. You already know

  • I turned down the first guy I ever went to "3rd base" with. Didn't get too far into 3rd base, because I felt it and said, NOPE! I was a virgin at the time, and KNEW it was not supposed to be that small hard lol. He was sweet though, and I never told him why I broke it off. We're still friends and we still talk, so it was probably for the best!

    • Wow, so you turned rejected a dude because his d*** didn't meet your standards. How would you feel if your current boyfriend dumped you because your vagina wasn't deep enough? *rolls eyes*

    • ROFL

    • I'm sure after the first time we'd f***ed, he wouldn't have called me back. =| I just happened to be able to tell BEFORE I got to that. =|

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  • I have turned down hook-ups because the guy's d*** was way too small, and I mean tiny. But if I really love a guy and am in a long term relationship, nothing about his penis could ever turn me off. If I love the man, I love his c*ck because it's his.

    • how small is too small? and how did u reject him?

Most Helpful Guys

  • I agree with unn0129. I am a boob man and I've had long term relationships with two women that had almost no t*ts at all and I never thought about dumping them because of it.

    • Yes, but we're also not pleasing you with our t*ts. At least not to that extent. =|

    • @LewnB: Bullsh*t.

  • girls can be harsh. its not like you break up with a girl because her t*ts are small.

    • I know this is a year old but your responses have been soooooo immature. Are you really comparing breast size to penis? Penis which is the main engine for sex? Have it ever occurred to you that those who reject people on their size will get no pleasure from it. Some women orgasm vaginal, studies literally back such outcome will cause the person to prefer bigger. Funny thing, if a woman rejects a guy cause he's too big, you'll agree cause it will be painful. So why is it bad when it's the other way around?

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  • Yes, mine was rejected because it was the wrong color ?!

    • What color is it then!?!?!? Just curious lol, I've seen all sorts of colors... =|

    • Seriously ..was it rejected because of color or size...i don't think the colour really matters

    • I was only kidding about being rejected because of color,just alluding to me being white. I have not slept with a black woman but find many pretty.....Color wise , a girl I worked with commented about the 'color'(s) of my penis, ..i.e: with the first 3 inches from the 'base' being 'skin color" and the upper portion before the head is somewhat darker.....maybe "pink' or slightly "orange". I don't think my penis is unusual in that. What do you two think based on your experience ? Bruce ..

  • no I can't say I've ever turned a guy down. I've f***ed a guy with a little penis but all the others was good. But it ain't really about the size for me..its if they can work it and make it feel good for me so I can do the same to them :)

  • In some sense yes….

    Because he just seemed dirty to me.

  • I have once. The guy was totally sweet, but the size of his penis would always kill the mood for me. It really would turn me off. He wasn't just small though, he was teeny tiny. I wasn't trying to be shallow, but I was thinking of my best interests, thus I needed to be with a guy who I was physically attracted to. I don't think relationships work(at least not well) when one partner isn't attracted to the other. Hope that helps! ^_^*

  • Nope, Never

  • Of course they do! That is the reason of my willing virginity for life!

  • only if it was dirty or if the guy didn't groom (trim, shave, something to keep it neat) but if I really liked the guy I could look past hair for sex...not for a bj though

  • So size does matter...!