Every time he has a chance he looks at my butt?

[Anonymous]

it's my friends brother. I do like him, I've been around his family so long that I feel like a part of it. But now I realized (or finally admitted to myself)that I really like him...I might be in love with him. anyway no that I've been paying a different type of attention to him, I always catch him looking at my butt when I get up, or walk past him, or when I'm walking away from the car after he drops me off from school. He isn't rude or a huge horndog, he's actually pretty modest around me most of the time. and he's very sweet and I have plenty of reasons to like him, I just don't like that he does that... Whenever we're in the car he's always like "oh look at her ass" and 'she has an ass" as if I'm one of his a guy friends... I want him to like me, of course, but not the same way he likes those girls with the "big asses' although he actually once told me "I'm different" from the other girls. I try to not dress so reveling, lol, but sometimes it I just wear shorts because of the heat..but I'm horribly shy and it makes me kinda embarrassed when I catch him looking .. kind of a dumb question, but Am I overreacting ? Should I say something the next time I catch him looking or just try to ignore it... and does this mean he just thinks of me like he does all those other girls :/

[MrOracle]

Well, he's a guy, and he's in the middle of his sexual peak years, plus he's not overly mature (and few guys his age are), so it's completely natural and normal for him to be thinking about sex and girls' bodies. And obviously he's an Ass-Man.

But the fact that he looks at girls doesn't mean he doesn't like you; he probably just doesn't think he has a chance with you. So, yes, I think you're over-reacting, at least a bit.

[brandonlee1234]

i think you will find most guys look at girls butts all the time. I don't like doing it, but I can't help myself if its nicely shaped. he probably not doing it to creep you out. he is just being a bloke. just ignore him, if you like him. I don't think he just does it to you, he probably does it to a lot of other girls as well. you probably have a very sexy butt.

[brandonlee1234]

you have got it, flaunt it. but in a good way lol. its sure way of getting a man attention lol.

[brandonlee1234]

if you don't like him looking down there. wear something less revealing. or you could be really horrible and tease him lol. I would be a cruel bitch if I was a girl lol.

[katiesmuff]

Your overracting a bunch. He likes your ass let him look, you even like him so it is likely soon he will be enjoying it naked.

[sixstring]

He's just an assguy. He prefers asses over the rest, so he notices every girl's ass. I don't think he looks at you the same way as those girls, he just focuses on the same part.

[Anonymous]

guys are stupid and that's what they prefer to do

[Anonymous]

he thinks you're a girl, in the way that the other girls are girls. you are females with good looking assets and it appeals to him. does it bother you that he's looking? if it does then tell him. or you could playfully catch him if you like it anyways and see how he reacts