Every time my boyfriend fingers me I feel the need to pee, is it normal?

I've never had sex before and I've never masturbated using my fingers inside. Is it normal if I feel that way? Does every girl feel it? Am I the only one? Sometimes it's a bit uncomfortable. Sorry if the question is a bit disgusting.
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  • I'm not a girl but I've talked to one of my friends who is while she was just starting to have sex. What she said was that every time they were having sex, she would always feel like she had to pee right in the middle of it. The next few times they tried it, she made SURE to always pee a few minutes before, but it didn't work. She would always still feel like peeing in the middle of sex.

    And like, usually she would hold it in and it was fine, but she would get upset that it sort of "killed" things for her. So then one day she decided not to hold it in anymore and worried that she was gonna pee on her boyfriend but that was actually how she got her first orgasm.

    So yeah, if you feel like you're having to pee, that's probably you about to have an orgasm. Don't hold it in or you probably won't have it. Even if you do end up peeing... I mean, I won't speak for all guys here but I personally wouldn't mind it because I mean it's just pee and to me that's like water. Personally I find semen much worse and gross and I don't get how some girls let guys put that on their faces like WTF... but yeah anyways don't hold it in. lol

  • Your vagina has two pockets. The one below your cervix can expand to take even a large penis. The one above is only about 2.5 Inches and curves up behind to the back of your pubic bone. There's a sort of "shelf" there which has a soft pad on it which is your G-spot. Your urethra (pee tube) passes through it to the bladder which is above the ceiling of your vagina.

    If he fingers you deeply there (watch the nails) he can lay his fingertips on your G-spot. Pressing down on it will feel pleasurable but also cause you to feel like you need to pee. A penis doing the same can brush your G-spot and also push up against your bladder giving an even stronger gottapee feeling. In fact, my lover may let loose a short spash if she did not pee before sex.

    If you get these feelings during fingering or sex, don't "pull up" relax and let loose. You may pee a little and you may not. My bet is no man will care and we may like it. We're all a little pervy, after all.

    • cooooooooooooool very detailed ...i did not know all that and I have a vagina

    • I have one too, but it is in the custody of my lover. But I am able to explore it as much as I want. I learn new things every time I am with her.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It's normal honey... Bcause his fingers stimulate your Gspot...

    And it's not disgusting thing... Please don't be silly or shy...

    I also feel it if my Boyfriend fingering my p**** and I always multiorgasm...

  • It's likely you have a full bladder and his finger probing is pushing on that which will give this feeling.

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  • I think you should just piss on him.

  • If he's pressing up on your g spot inside, it might cause that sensation. A lot of girls describe g spot stimulation by saying it makes them feel that way at first.

  • I think its normal because you have not done it much. also he must be stimulating a bit more around your pee hole that make you pee. Tell him not to rub that part too hard and don't be embarrassed that you want to pee..if you like to let it go that's pretty natural.

  • It might not be the urge to pee, but rather female ejaculation coming on. I've heard girls describe thinking that that they had to pee the first time they ejaculated.

  • Are you sure it's pee or the female ejaculate?

    Nothing "disguisting" about this question...