Ex-girlfriend's bra?

I have always had this nagging feeling that my boyfriend is still in love with his ex, or maybe just infatuated. Well, the other day I was putting something away in his drawer and I found a pink bra! Totally NOT mine. When I asked him what it was he said it was his ex girlfriend's and that he hasn't cleared his drawers out in forever. I believe him but this just like kinda confirms it. If he was truly over her, wouldn't he of thrown it away by now?
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  • I think there is a problem here. You are just too insecure. You should give some serious thought too why you are looking for evidence that he has feelings for someone else. The bra buried in a drawer, could have stayed there a couple years without him ever discovering it. Guys are just like that.

  • To me it sounds like he just forgot, or gets something out of having it there. The fact that he was so upfront and honest in his response should be comforting though, I doubt he still even thinks about her

Most Helpful Girls

  • I'm having the same problem it's literally right on top of where he keeps the condoms. When I brought it up to him and asked him why he hasn't gotten rid of it he tells me "well its not mine so I don't want to throw it out.

  • My boyfriend has one of my bras, and he forgot he had it for months until he stumbled across it one day. It is really no big deal. Very likely he didn't remember it at all until reminded.

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  • Was the bra buried under stuff or was it on top and noticeable? Did he really forget it was there or is he just using that as an excuse?

    Hmmmmmm...

    • It was right on top and noticeable... or else I wouldn't have seen it

  • It sounds like a fetish; there's just no reason to keep an ex's stuff when you have a new girlfriend.

    Offer him your bras as a replacement.

  • Nahhh, guys are slobs, he probably never thought twice about it (more likely never thought about it at all) and if he didn't have to move it to get to his cloths then it doesn't exist.

    Don't make a big deal out of nothing.

    That said, if you catch him wearing his ex girlfriends bra, that's another thing entirely.

  • dump his ass girl. He is cheating.