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Extreme sexual chemistry?

Do you know somebody who you have insane sexual chemistry with? Like you just can't stand next to each other without something happening? I have this guyfriend and we don't really fit as a couple even though we tried but we can't be next to each other without something happening. He has a girlfriend at the moment but we still fooled around even though we tried so hard to control ourselves. He feels bad though now and he said he needed to clear his head with everything. Well anyways do you think there a more people out there who you have this chemistry with? And do you think it is only with people who you are not in a rs with? As I didn't have this connection to my ex.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I work with this guy who every time were around each other it's like I can feel the electricity between us. I am not really all that attracted to him which is why it's weird, but I know he is sexually attracted to me( he has admitted this) I have a boyfriend though, so I only consider him a friend who I can tell anything to. Although I don't want anything from him other than friendship, every time he's near me I get all tingly...and hot and bothered. When he flirts with me, it feels right...like we are in the exact same place and I just feel comfortable and accepting of him, and it's so weird I can't even analyze how I feel but I just know it isn't something I should feel bcause I have a boyfriend but it's undeniable and I can't help it...even though I don't like it

    • Sounds like a quality girl. Exactly why monogamy is pointless.

  • OMG yes! There's the one guy that I can't be around him without ending up in amazing sex. We tried dating but it didn't work. We are too young to be in a relationship.

  • Yesss it's an awesome thing.

    But I keep my pants on while he has a girlfriend. That the line

Most Helpful Guys

  • Yes!

    I actually had this with one of my best friends Moms, many years ago. Back in '93, '94... she used to hug me and her hands would "wonder"... and it used to turn me on like crazy. Then, when I would try to return the favor by grabbing her ass, she would say "what are you doing?!, you're Dave's friend, but then wink at me". I was only in my young 20's back then. It was like the "stacy's mom" song.

    We never had sex - only because of my Bud Dave - but I would have done Ann anytime. She was hot for being like 45 then. She was especially tight in the ass for an older woman.

  • Yes, I know this very well. One can't really control it. It's a very strong thing.

    What do you mean with "something happening"?

    I don't think it has anything to do with rs. An rs can develop from this attraction. And the attraction also doesn't need to fade once there's an rs.

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  • Yes to some extent! Only difference is that the man in my situation will soon be my husband.

  • I think you're describing being sexually attracted to someone. If I go somewhere, like the gym, I see lots of girls I want to jump on top off. Some of those girls I reaaaaallly want to jump on. Maybe it's a little different for some girls, but I can easily get sexually turned on just by looking at a girl, and there are an abundance of girls that can do that do me. I can regularly go into a wholefoods see 10+ amazing looking girls.

    • Granted how the sex is is an important aspect of sexual chemistry, but I didn't notice you describing that part.

  • Yes, only difference is I have enough self control not to selfishly interact with someone who is in a relationship.

  • Perhaps you'll be lucky enough to find a guy who cheats on you.

    • LOL

  • Don't feel bad.

    She should already know men and women can't be friends.

    That's her problem.

    Yes to the question.

  • I used to have that with an ex but not anymore after we broke up

  • Yes there have been 4 or 5 women that I was insane over. The sex was explosive and amazing. I used to have that with my girlfriend but she hates me now

  • I have has this connection I don't know why it's like that but it's intense.

  • yes there was this girl I was extremely attracted to I couldn't be around her without getting really turned on and checking her out every second , we never actually had sex cause I knew her older sister and it would of really annoyed her if we had but there was no doubt some chemistry there that wasn't with any other girls I knew , it wasn't just that she was hot I was more attracted to her for some reason that anyone else

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