Extremely lopsided labia minora?

Like the title says, I have lopsided labia minora that are very noticeable. One is an innie, and the other is an outie. How much of a turn off is that? Does anyone else have this issue, and guys have you ever come across a girl who had this? How did you feel about it and respond to it?
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  • Mine are asymmetrical, one being somewhere around 1-1.5 inches, the other maybe a centimeter. I more or less have an 'innie', and neither labia are visible with my legs closed. If I'm standing or laying naked with my legs spread more than say, shoulder width apart, the longer one becomes visible. None of the guys I've been with have ever seemed in any way concerned about it or turned off by it. If they were the kind of guy who liked to spend any significant amount of 'intimate' time down there [like with oral and fingering] and seeing a girl's parts, they enjoyed looking at and playing with them. My current boyfriend says they're cute, that I have 'the cutest, sexiest [insert random vulva nickname] ever'.

    Asymmetrical labia, whether they're visible all the time or just with legs spread, are extremely common and completely normal. In fact, very few women have perfectly symmetrical labia, or symmetrical breasts. There's nothing weird or unattractive about it and only the most shallow and insecure guys would have anything negative to say about such a thing. I shouldn't have to state the obvious, but any guy who would act like that is not a guy you want to spend any amount of time with, let alone intimately, because they don't deserve your time, nor do they represent the majority of men. Most men, especially a man who cares about you, will be thrilled just to be allowed access to your parts and will likely find them unbelievably sexy. Don't stress out, dude. Guys like all kinds of vulvas, and very, very rarely would consider the appearance of a girl's parts to be a deal breaker or even a blip on their radar of things to be picky about.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Just like faces are never symmetrical neither are labia. The differences can be small or large. When I see very asymmetrical libia it is just interesting. I love the diversity of girls vulvas, just like faces they are all different. What is important is who you are as a person. The form of the physical body is of much less importance. I would rather be with an odd looking woman of great heart than with a beautiful perfectly symmetrical woman with a difficult personality.

  • Lots of girls have some asymetry to their labia. It's no big deal at all. Guys are going to be WAY too happy to see a vagina AT ALL to ever make an issue about it, so you have nothing to worry about. Really, any guy with experience is going to know that girl-parts (like all other body parts) vary a lot from girl to girl, and to the extent that a guy cares AT ALL, most will just find it interesting and fun to play with and explore.

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  • Is Not!...is a Turn On...I love outties and this only makes you unique...U R Hawt...never think otherwise...(:(:(:

  • I don't care at all really.

  • it is not a turn off

  • Many women have lopsided labia minora it's not uncommon, you're fine just love your body the way it is.
    hope this helped :)

  • I doubt I'd even notice. I'd be too focused on other things.

  • Sounds like a turn on to me.

  • Not a turn off at all to be honest. Hardly any guys are very picky about vagina that I know of. Girls just think we are. If we like you we'll like it and it will make both people feel good no matter what it looks like so it doesn't matter. I think my penis looks funny but girls don't care so it's the same deal, you care more than your future boyfriend will.

  • i think a picture is needed to see what we're dealing with here :p