Fantasizing about my best guy friend... Do you think he does it too?

[Anonymous]

To add the details... I have this best guy friend who I am so head over heels, and I'm pretty sure he likes me too. Well recently, I keep fantasizing about him in a sexual way. He loves to talk about his work (which I think is insanely hot) and last time we texted, sexual euphemisms were totally there (most likely unknowingly). It was like "blah is so big! blah inches!" and I'd be like "wow so huge!" ...no we were not talking about p****. So I want to tell him that I find his job (and him) super hot...is that weird if I said that randomly one day? like will it freak the crap out of the guy? Also, do guys fantasize about his very close female friend?

[themastaplan]

it depends on the friend really. I have a lot of good lookin girlfriends that I've thought about...keep the flirting up, go out for some drinks and let the alcohol do the talking...it will be easier for you and that way the truth will come out, you'll know if he's interested or not interested...just don't get TOO drunk where he's like "oh your just drunk" you want him to know your attracted to him, just flirt and go with the vibe...hopefully sooner than later he'll figure it out and one of you can go in for a kiss...just take it slow and go with the flow of things

[Asker]

Yeah, well, he kinda lives a bit far so going out for a drink may be a bit hard... :) Thanks though!

[l-hedoniste]

"So I want to tell him that I find his job (and him) super hot...is that weird if I said that randomly one day?"

This is called a "compliment". It's a nice thing to do.

"Also, do guys fantasize about his very close female friend?"

We don't fantasize about much else.

[200rabbits]

It won't freak him out. He might well find it strange, we don't really know anything other that what you've told us, but he'll probably enjoy hearing it from you.

[Asker]

I'm bit concerned because he's most def on the shy side when it comes to dating, so I don't want to freak him out. I've exhausted other adjectives to compliment and I really wanna tell him, but then again, I don't want him to take it the weird way...argh

[200rabbits]

If you wanna go out with him, just ask him out, that definitely won't freak him out. The worst that will happen is that he will get awkward for a moment because he won't know how to respond, if that happens you just simply have to move the conversation on - but do that by moving onto a different topic. Even if he's shy, if you ask him out, he'll probably say yes. I saw a question recently that was asking if guys would say yes to a girl who was a friend if she asked him out and there were a LOT

[200rabbits]

of answers saying yes.

[irykiryk]

Most probably he does! If you like him so much sexually get to it!

[Asker]

haha I wish! thanks!

[TheScenario]

WTF is his job that is so hot?

[themastaplan]

lol

[Anonymous]

Just pull out his cawk next time and suck him off