Female friend offered me sex?

She sent me a message that left little of her anatomy to the imagination. How can I politely say no? I'm waiting for the right girl.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Just tell her the truth. she will understand; your not a puppet or a toy that you HAVE to she do something when she asks you, esacially if its something like that. she won't be mad, she'll respect your limits instead

  • sandwhich it... compliment / negative bit/ compliment

    EG.-

    Hey that pic turned me on, but I'm not looking for thgat kinda thing I'm sure someone else would love to tap that...

    • I do that for other things when I want to tell something to someone but don't want them upset with me.

  • Tell her directly that you are not the type of guy who would have it with someone that is not in a serious relationship with you.

    • than tell her if she want's you she has to go on a few dates with you?

Most Helpful Guys

  • It's important -- specially for GUYS -- not to see sex as a free meal... and grab it every time it comes our way. Just say a polite no.

    • it's sad because most guys want sex and will work for it but some girls who just want sex without the relationship will try to use that fact and have a one time fling... or a friends with benifits thing.

    • Actually, I think the girls are just catching up with what guys have been doing for millenia. Sad. But we should adopt common standards.

  • you can say that my machine is having some erection problem...believe me in the entire life she will not offer you again...

    • ha ha

    • lol

    • just hope she doesn't tell her friends (other girls you might want to date/hook up with)

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • ''sorry,i'm waiting for the right girl''

  • Don't say no. She is the right girl.

  • politely refer her to one of your other friends

  • just say no.

  • If she's hot you should so go for it, damn. I guess just tell her you're waiting for the right girl.

  • Give her my number! ;-)

  • just ignore the text, that send a clear message.

  • Tap that sh*t

  • Just be honest and tell her you are flattered but you want to be in a relationship before you have sex