To be honest I couldn't tell you which finger my boyfriend uses when he fingers me. I just know that it feels DAMN good - way better than if I was to finger myself. That's because he has very large hands and big fingers, so even using solely his middle finger feels more pleasurable to me than using two of mine at once. At some guys said, I also find than curling the finger really increases the pleasure level and, once again, it's not a motion that I can do myself in as great a position.
i like index and middle better. mostly because there a little bit bigger, he has more control over them, and they don't fatigue as quickly. but really it doesn't matter that much if he wants to use the others
It's just how you manage to feel comfortable. Chance are, you are not going to be there for just seconds, so you have to try the best way to be comfy and get pleasure.
On her back, tummy or hands/knees I use the first and second. On her back the fingers curl around to her G-Spot and the thumb massages her clit. On tummy or back the thumb goes to her G-Spot and the fingers straddle and massage her clit. When she is on her back, the ring finger can enter her anus, which she often likes. Use the other hand at her boobs or the bottom of her tummy just above her pubic bone. Skilled hands can almost gurantee an orgasm every time which a c0ck cannot do.
On tummy or hands and knees, not back...
I use Index and Middle most of the time, but I definitely will switch things up fairly often too. I like to try lot of little variations to basic things, and see how my girl responds. Different girls like different things, so you never know exactly how or if something "works" until you try it. I don't think there's a "best" way, but there may be a "best" way for YOU, and that may be different than the "best" way for another girl. Nothing wrong with that.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!it's more about curling the fingertip and playing with her g-spot than which fingers you use, imo
Depends on the girl. All girls like things differently.
The Correct motion according to sex experts is to use both the middle and ring finger and make a come hither motion.
Both, it's just your preference.
I don't give a damn what he does as long as it feels good.
Index and middle for sure
I really prefer index and middle. Ring fingers just don't seem as... bendy.
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