Fingering a girl's butt

I really enjoy fingering a girl's butt while I am simultaneously fingering her front and licking her clit. It almost always brings the girl to a violent orgasm. Why is it that it almost always takes a girl forever to let me finger (or lick) her backside but once I do, they thank me and want it all the time? Also, if the girl enjoys it, why won't she finger my butt (I really enjoy it), even after I ask her?
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The frustrating thing is girls all enjoy it but are so hesitant at first. BTW, I only do this with a girlfriend, not some hook up. Second, we are always both clean as the girls I have dated won't let me eat them without being clean and I like to be clean for them (even though they haven't been into giving bjs). It also seems that girls think their bottoms are OK to play with but not guys. Do girls have something against the male butt? I guarantee you that I am more clean than some I have dated.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I had a guy try to do this to me after a first date it was very strange because I did not know the guy. If he was a serious boyfriend I would have thought it was odd but let him do it. Being that I didn't know him well I found it strange that while we where making out and stuck his fingers down my butt hole. It took me a few minutes to learn what he was doing and to get a grip on it. I won't finger a guys butt just seems gross this is the place that poop comes out of. I didn't know that some guys even liked this until it this happened to me.

  • 1. It can result in embarrassing results, especially if she had a bowel movement or is ready to have one. Think about it.

    2. It is considered a less common sexual activity, a fringe activity, so not all girls are going to easily jump in to this.

    3. I am not in to fingering my guys butt, even if he asks. Again, possible embarrassing results and I have nails, so I worry about hurting him.

    • Regarding your update, back in the day I would never have played with my guy's butt or had a guy ask me to because it was considered an activity that only gay men enjoyed. It would have been considered unmanly for a guy to want this. So, even now, many guys would not ask for this because of their concern over being labeled gay. I don't think there is anything wrong with it, fyi, just reporting what I have seen over the years.

  • I thought both of these thing were nasty at first and wondered why a guy would ever want to but a guy fingered my butt one time and it felt amazing but I don't want to ask another guy to do it because I'm afraid they'll freak out and no one else but the one guy has ever tried it. All the rest of the guys I've dated just like to grab my butt as much as possible

Most Helpful Guys

  • I think most are self conscious and worried about the faecal matter :) You have to reassure them. I'm sure indeed most women would enjoy it if they could relax sufficiently and had enough trust in their partner.

  • My girlfriend loves it. Especially cowgirl position.

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  • Well you have found one now that if you ever tried fingering my butt, I'd have your nut sac stretched out to about 3 ft as I was squeezing those nuts.

  • " violent orgasm" <-- sounds dangerous.

    Because it's taboo, I think.

  • I generally don't like having my butthole touched because it makes me feel gross. But even if a guy manipulates me into letting him do it, even though he knows I'm against it, either by pressuring me into it or getting me so turned on I won't say no to anything, that sure as hell doesn't mean I'm going to touch his.

  • I finger my girls ass all the time before, during, and after sex, and she does the same and she fingers my ass in my sleep and makes me sniff it

  • I don't mind it, but it's not the most amazing thing ever either

    My advise would be to touch the area around the anus first
    and see how she reacts to it
    then always move closer to entering
    You'll notice if she flinches, says something, ...

  • Read or google for "prostrate massage".

  • It is gross. I would worry about possible embarrassing moments.

    Being clean is absolute, but specifically preparing for someone to finger the backside isn't usually common... I wouldn't want my guy's finger smelling, and I wouldn't want MY finger smelling if he requested it himself.

    Icky.

  • i don't know I mean your finger will smell after since feces comes out of there and ugh it makes me self conscious. somethings are just meant to stay in p*rn which is fake.

  • i don't know I've never done anything sexual but I'm up for anything..

    i wouid let you do what you want to do to me and would do for you what you like.

    • I'll give you a good time inbox me... SaintishWolf2000@outlook. com