Fingering a girl who's on her period?

Guys, what are your thoughts on this? I personally think its nasty...but I hooked up with a guy once and I told him not to go down there cause I was on my period and he did anyways. I reminded him in case he forgot and he said he didn't really care as long as I didn't. Is that weird? lol. It was only the first day so it was pretty light, at least.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I don't think it's that weird, some guys really don't care, lol. The other night things were getting hot with this guy I like and who wants to date me, and I warned him I was on my period. He didn't care at all, he still dove right in mouth first as soon as he got my pants off. I still had a tampon in and it was toward the end so my flow was pretty light, and I've had sex on my period before, but never had a guy be so unphased by it that he wasn't deterred from going down on me at all, and said that he still loved every second of it. I was surprised, though pleasantly, haha. And then we had sex three times [with condoms] after I'd gone to the bathroom to get rid of the tampon. I figure it's one of those things where if he's cool with it and the only reason you feel weird about it is because you think he WON'T be cool with it, then there's no harm in just going for it, lol. =/

    • Tangerine Tara strikes again! Six to nothing, eh? Have almoset scored ANOTHER touchdown! Why are you always so practical and reasonable?...(:(:(: <3<3<3 =D

  • I don't really care, I'll go remove the tampon and let him play if that is what he likes. A bit messy, but it is just blood and water cleans it up in a jiffy.

Most Helpful Guys

  • For some reason, sitting here answering, that would phase me more then having sex, or oral with a tampon in.

    However, I suspect in the heat of the moment I'd do it and not be bothered at all.

  • Vampires would like it

    • B.A

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  • I would do it if you didn't mind. People have different approaches it, but many guys don't mind touching period fluids.

  • If that's what gets her going, then fine.

  • Penis in the vagina during a girls period is one thing but fingering her while on her period.. GROSS.

  • Would not bother me...it takes a lot more than blood to ruin my day...(:

  • kinda crazy. cause I wouldn't want anybodies blood on my fingers. no matter what the circumstances are

    • Even frome fingering a virgin? Sorry just cureus

    • what if she has a disease?

  • Some guys don't care.My current guy doesn't mind attempting to go down or finger me if I'm on my period,meanwhile I feel grossly uncomfortable.

  • Honest answer is it depends on how attracted to her I am at the moment. If I feel attracted enough being close to her and feeling her will make me not care about her being on her period.