Fingering your butthole, prostate massage?

So my boyfriend revealed to me that he enjoys a finger up his butthole. It gives him an extra intense orgasm, because it stimulates his prostate (the male equivalent to the female g-spot). My ex, wouldn't let my hands go near his bum, just in case it gave off any kind of gay connotation. How many of you guys out there enjoy this? I want to know how common it is? And how it feels for does of you who like it.
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Most Helpful Girl

  • My guy brought it up to me pretty early on in our sexual relationship. I'd been curious and wanted to try it, but hadn't yet been with a guy who seemed open to it, let alone requested it. My ex was open to it, but we never ended up getting there before we broke up. So this was a first for me and my current guy. We tried it, and he enjoyed it. I'd done a little research in the past, so I wasn't totally just fumbling around aimlessly, lol. The prostate stimulation alone wouldn't have done it for him necessarily, but he thinks it adds an extra dimension of pleasure when done during a bj, especially starting halfway through and continuing until he finishes. The results have been explosive, haha. We only do it on occasion, but last time it was so intense for him that when he finished, I ended up with his thighs clamped around my head for a few seconds, lmao. Unexpected, but not a problem.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I like it a lot during either oral (awkward for her) or a hand job (easy where she is already massaging balls/sack. It "supercharges" ejaculation.

    Some "pointers" (haha) for making it best:

    1. Palm toward sack. Do not separate the balls. Cup them together.

    2. Push in (to your second knuckle) in several strokes, not all at once.

    3. Rotating your finger side to side adds to the pleasure at the anal opening.

    4. A "come here" movement when you are in deep stimulates the prostate.

    5. Experience can teach you to press on the prostate and enhance ejaculation at the moments of contractions.

  • It can be good or very lousy for the guy. Use lube of course, but you have to read up a little on prostate massage. It'slike a girl -- a guy can finger you and it can be good bad -- can be gentle, enjoyable, erotic or it can be too rough and uncomfortable.

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  • This is just weird for any guy to allow this, its just pure weirdo behavior, I would wonder to myself what he does when alone, kind of sick really.

  • I enjoy it, but I wouldn't tell that to most women, considering the ones I've dated have wanted to do with either butt.

  • I'm very secure in my sexuality and am not worried about any homosexual references about myself.

    I do enjoy anal stimulation, be it a finger or a toy. What it feels like is pretty impossible to describe because it is unlike anything else I've ever felt but I know it feels good.

    I wasn't always like that though, I tried experimenting with anal around age 15 or so, took me quite a while to learn how to recieve it but once I got the hang of it I loved it and have ever since.

  • i've never tried it but I don't think I'd like it.

  • I feels amaing! I love it!

  • I finger in the bum feels amazing, and definitely gives for a better orgasm

  • It's fairly common. I like it, but only if the girl actually knows what she's doing. I've no interest in being her guinea pig.

  • It can be a nice experience if that's your cup of tea. It isn't for everyone. But it can be seriously amazing if your willing to understand that it has nothing to do with straight or gay. Just people exploring their bodies together. :)