Fire crotch

Question

my  boyfriend's a fire crotch, and it really bothers me. I know it sounds shallow, but I just don't know what to do. I mean, do I have the right to ask him to shave it? I mean, I am his girlfriend. is that okay?

miranda · Accepted Answer

If anyone could ask him to shave, it'd be you. But I wouldn't if I were you. I think it's harsh to judge him by the color of his pubes, and if you're having sex with him then ideally he's someone that you love and respect. It's going to hurt his feelings if you suggest that he rid himself of that gastly firecrotch.

Really - if he's cool, treats you well, loves you well, why would you care about his pubes?! Jesus talk about things that are you of your control! Lots of guys have red/strawberry-blonde pubes or at least a few strands among the overall brown and black hair.

Good luck!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

i can't see why you would possibly object to your boyfriend having red hair downstairs. I'm a redhead, so obviously I have red hair everywhere, but I hadn't realized that it was that big of a deal to some people.

i like my boyfriend to shave or at least keep it trim, just because its hair. he has dark hair, but I would think the same if it was blonde or brown red, its just a color. as long as it isn't purple or something, I really think there are better things to concentrate on during sex then the color of your boyfriends pubes. just my thoughts =)

melissarose8585 · Accepted Answer

You can ask him to shave it, especially if you're putting your mouth down there. The only thing is, well, didn't you realize when you started dating him that he would have red pubic hairs?

The other thing is that you can use an excuse for a reason to have him clean it up, but what do you think his reaction will be when he finds out why you really wanted this? I imagine he's going to be really hurt, feeling a little rejected.

shittyshittyshitty · Accepted Answer

Well you are in quite the conundrum. The way I see it, the only way that you could come out of that talk while coming out unscathed and torched is to make sure that you are asking him to shave just because.DO NOT mention it's because he's got red hair down there. Tell him anything close to that would kill his self-esteem because there is nothing he can do about it. So to summarize, if it bothers you that much just point out that you hate hair down there, not HIS hair color/his hair in general down there

Mr5mrtA55 · Accepted Answer

Have you thought about asking if you could shave the area for him?

gravygirl · Answer

Why would this bother you?  Red pubic hair is so much nicer looking than dark pubic hair.  Assuming he keeps it somewhat trimmed, I can't see why this would be any issue at all.

yummymummyxXx · Answer

Ask him to shave it but tell him its cos he's giving you friction burns and that when shaved it will increase sensitivity and pleasure for you its a plausible  reason and he needs never know the real reason for your discomfort.

l-hedoniste · Answer

You're entitled to ask. He's entitled to refuse. A compromise, perhaps, is best.

i-rock-hard · Answer

of coarse it is ok  me and my boyfriend tell each other when its time the cut down the forest

Little-Hippie · Answer

Depends on the guy. Technically, you DO have the right. I mean, it's technically YOUR dong. About how spiteful is your guy though? Is he the type that would just NOT do it? You know him better than I.