First date and got fingered

Question

Is that bad?  I've been attracted to this guy since we met and he finally asked me out.  We had a great time dinner, movie.  When he dropped me off to get my car we were making out like crazy and I let him get in my blouse.  Before I knew it he was up my dress and in my panties.  He hasn't called other than to see if I made it home OK.  Did I go too far?

rabster · Accepted Answer

Look, it's OK for many people to give their opinion based on themselves but the bottom line is it's your call.

There are a huge number of people who have sex on the first date and others who wait months, there is no rule to say it's too soon, too quick, etc because it's everybodys own choice.

If your happy enough with what happened then that's fine, you were safe, nobody got hurt and it might have gone a little futher than you expected but hey, that's what happens in the heat of the moment.

It's for you to decide if it's OK and now you can use this as experience to guide you when your next in that situation, you will then know when to draw the line.

rockingpianoman · Accepted Answer

you do what you want , you think about it what you want .

if you wanted it , if you liked it , well then don't give a f***.

going too far is something you should make out for yourself.

some people fck on first date , others think a kiss on the lips is already too far...

angie2291 · Accepted Answer

it doesn't depend just on you getting finger  i got finger once in a first date and 2 years later we are still together

Carrie123 · Accepted Answer

Only you can answer that question. If you enjoyed yourself don't worry about it, if you didn't then don't do it again.

byronbuckles · Answer

Not necessarily. It's between the two of you, and how you were feeling at the moment. It's shi&*y he didn't call you, he should definitely call you.

You have to know what you are comfortable with doing, and how you like the way he touches you.

kheserthorpe · Answer

Lots of people have sex on the first date and may still go on to a relationship, lots of others try and yet judge girls who do.   It sounds good to me.

LightUp · Answer

he was there to get laid .

sovetskii13 · Answer

I think that's going too far on a first date.

Skittles_lover · Answer

Some people go way further than that, you're fine.

NonchalantBro · Answer

too far lol

Konnour · Answer

Why just fingered? Was he too small for the real thing? It just sounds so strange... ''First date and got fingered'' .. it's something what could happen more commonly with two girls dating, you know?