First dry humping with my bf and he came in his shorts. is it a normal thing?

[Anonymous]

Last night i had my very first experience with my bf after kissing. We were alone at home so started making out and cuddling. He was still in his sport uniform and started dry humping and i was on the top riding him. He started moaning and was really horny and aroused and I could feel his erection but after 5 minutes i felt him get soft and he stopped me and i noticed a wet spot on his shorts. He didn't tell a word but looked quite embarrassed. I guess he came, right? Can a guy enjoy if he comes inside his shorts or is it just annoying and embarrassing? Is it simple to lose control in this situation? He was wearing compression shorts under soccer shorts and told me the compression and the rubbing with the fabric was very pleasant.

[Anonymous]

This is completely normal. You should be flattered; clearly you turn him on! And yes it is simple to lose control if the girl knows what she's doing. Personally I have had ex's grind on top until I came and it can be very embarrassing but to each their own. Some girls were aroused by this being that it was their intention others didn't really seem to mind. Regardless know dry humping/grinding without going further will most likely result in your guy ejaculating in his pants/shorts/etc. Is it comfortable? No not really. Especially if he has to make the trip back to his place afterwords

[Supertriston]

Dry Humping is normal to have an Orgasm with. It's perfectly normal. Especially if they don't do anything sexual often, or at all. And yes that meant he had one. But Wet Humping feels incredibly amazing to a guy over Dry trust me. And it'd feel a whole lot better for you as well. It's annoying and Embarrassing to have it really fast. But if you do it slower and harder, it's not only more pleasurable... But it makes them last MUCH longer instead of fast.

[gifts123]

He came in his pants!! This is normal for younger guys who really never had sex and who gets really horny. I bet he was embarrassed but try not to bring it up to him because he will feel very self consonances and will try and avoid you.

[Jensen_the_Hunter]

Totally normal. Kudos to him for lasting that long. If a hot person was rubbing you off hard for five minutes while you were aroused wouldn't you come?

[skorzeny75]

This is totally normal, and it was fine for him. It wouldn't be like normal sex, but he would rather cum in his shorts than not. Next time, take care of him, but use protection.

[kheserthorpe]

I'm sure it felt good and was hot, but he also probably felt like he came too easily and it was embarrassing.

How do you feel about it?

If you are happy he did and find it hot, let him know. Then he will know not to feel its a bad thing, and that he can enjoy it freely knowing it excites you to.

[madhatters4]

I always found it annoying but it is sexual gratification so it's usually dealt with

it's pretty normal

[stevie123]

Completely normal.A guy gets off by stimulation on his cock.That could be you grinding him through his pants , a HJ, BJ, or sex.Any time a guy (or girl) cums, it is enjoyable.
However, cumming in your pants is uncomfortable.Next time , pull it out and give a HJ, and have a wipe handy.

[Kermit123]

Yes, quite normal. Easy to happen. And yes it is pleasurable but still a bit embarrassing.

Next time, tell him you want to get him off. Then tell him how hot it is / how much it turns you on when he does. Knowing you expect and like it will make him feel more comfortable.

[SaltandVinegar]

Yeah that is very normal for a young guy

[Anonymous]

i was on the top riding him.

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