First few times at sex, bad in bed?

[Anonymous]

Would you say that people that only have had sex a few times are bad in bed?

[djmoney]

It all depends on the person. My first time was with a girl who only had sex once before me. It wasn't great at first (probably due to my own clumsiness and nervousness) but the sex with her was incredible. Best I have ever had. My ex-girlfriend, however, was fairly experienced. The sex with her was lackluster and sometimes not even desirable.

It depends on the person and also, how much you care about the person. Sex with someone you met that night might be good for the new, exploratory sensation. But sex with someone you love can be so much more explosive and passionate.

Good luck, and be gentle with him. (or not. =P )

[Atomizer]

I don't think "bad" sex exists.

There's better and worse, funner and less fun.

But I've never had bad, terrible sex where I thought "this is awful! it's like pulling teeth! when will the agony be over?"

and also, sex with a new person can be a bit uncomfortable, even for sexually experienced people. takes time to learn preferences, turn off's & on's, and get into the groove (so to speak).

[whisperedrayne]

The only bad lovers are selfish ones. But no I don't think that just because a person is inexperienced that they are bad in bed, everybody has different needs, likes, dislikes, wants when it comes to the bedroom and a key factor in having good sex is communication, if there is no communication then how are you or your partner going to express what they like or what they dont? its all about learning, and trying new things, sure it may take a few tries to get it right but no ones perfect.

[NucoRose]

No, it depends on the person... some people need some time to adjust and get better at it, some people will never get better at it, and some people are experts their first time

it's like video games... some people are at level 15 the first day, some people are at level 15 in a week, and some people can't get past level 1 XD

[crazycool]

If its like a video game then I'm awsome haha but that's probably not the best comparison

[kittyboo]

In some ways yes; some ways no. They don't usually have the experience to know exactly what to do and when but they're usually eager to learn and can be trained which is a plus! So I wouldn't exactly call them bad in bed just in need of a good teacher LOL!

[Deathecutioner]

While in bed: Slow it down relax and take it slow.

While out of bed Get more sexual knowledge

[iformshadears]

Depends on how much porn they have watched LOL.

[smith2267]

Well, speaking as a guy, it is fun to have an inexperienced girl in bed. The wonder of it all to her is a real kick.

But I don't think women feel the same about inexperienced guys.