yeah the first time I had sex, I was not expecting it to really hurt that much, but my boyfriend was pretty big and as soon as he completely entered me, it hurt a lot for like 2 seconds, but once he started thrusting (slowly - always go slow your first time) it started to feel amazing, like nothing I've ever felt before. Even now, I think "Man, all those times that my boyfriend's fingered me feels nothing like how great sex feels". You also might bleed a bit, but it's usually only a couple spots, and sometimes you won't bleed at all. Every girl is different.
The best advice I can give you is: Don't feel too nervous and tense up (clench your muscles), doing this will just make it more difficult for him to get it in and it will hurt. Just relax, if you know your with a great guy it should make it easier.
Also, safety wise - makesure he has the condom on properly, and it'd be best for you to be on birth control (that way if the condom were to break or slip off you can still be protected from pregnancy).
Being ready to have sex includes many things, like being ready with protection, being ready for the emotional attachment that comes along with sex too. Trust me - you get more attached if you already like the guy
I freaking love you, for this comment really.you totally cool me off even my boyfriend did not talked to me like that. so thank you so much
Oh no problem! So happy I was able to help. You're very welcome, I just told you what I wish someone would have told ME before I had my first time, because I think that's as truthful as it gets :) Hope everything went good with you two if you did decide to have sex for the 1st time!
actually he just wanted to have sx, if you read my other question you will see what happen and it is definitely not a fairy story yea...
Yes cos you` ve never had anything inside you down there b4, it will def be a new sensation
Just take it slow and gentle for the1st tym
Mine was awesome, the feeling of getting inside is always great but the first time you do it is the best! Also the girl I did it with was a virgin too so to know you're the first one makes it especial, and the tightness feels amazing lol, it hurt a bit for her but we did it slowly and she was very wet so it was not that bad I think!
It was amazing, scary, and exciting! For me it was one of the best first experiences of my life. As a girl, take it slow and make sure he does too. Don't think too much about what to do the first couple times. Just relax, have fun and enjoy the moment =]
I'll try to do that
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