First Time Sex Tips?

Question

What are some things that I should remember my first time? like what to do and what not to do...

MILWJ · Accepted Answer

The best position for the first time is with you on top. It's much better if you control how fast he enters you. The guy's reaction is to pull out quickly if you say "ouch" even if you can handle the pain and don't want him to pull out yet - so it makes things much easier if you're on top to control everything. If it starts to hurt a bit too much while you're guiding him inside you, try not to pull it out immediately but stay in that position for a little while to get used to the feeling of him inside you.

It's also important to make plans for the bleeding beforehand - put a dark colored towel underneath and have tissues and/or wipes ready to go beside you.

Take it very very slowly, and don't think you're obliged to make him orgasm the first time. It should be about getting comfortable with sex. Good luck and have fun! You only get to do the first time once ;).

EverythingReal · Accepted Answer

Make sure it's what you want to do - you only have one virginity and you will never forget the time or the person

Make sure you are comfortable with the person

Be comfortable - Don't worry about how your thighs or belly look from a certain angle or if your nipples look weird, just be comfortable

Tell him to be gentle for the first while

Don't just lay there, touch his back or hair or something

Condoms and lube

Enjoy yourself - be natural

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

relax and also make sure he is the right guy (before the sex..)

abw121290 · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't give you any specific tips, per se, other than to just be in the moment.. do what comes natually, and communicate with each other about what you like and don't like.  I will tell you to do a lot of foreplay and make sure you are wet and well lubricated.