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First time without a condom?

I want to have sex with my boyfriend the next time I see him. The thing is I don't want him to use a condom. I know. I know. It sounds stupid. Its just I want it to be a great experience for both of us. And I feel like it might hold us back a little. I know I sound dumb I just don't know. He bought condoms for when i was ready and some lube. I really want to just not with a condom. Not for the first time. But trust me i have noooooo interest in getting pregnant 😖... Im thinking about plan B but just one measly pill is sooo expensive. I dont have that kind of money right now. Please help? And try your hardest not to be rude. I really just need guidance not judgment. Thank you in advance.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • First, understand that Plan B is just a very high dosage of BC pills - in fact, it was created as a result of doctors advising women to take several BC pills at once as "emergency BC."

    Second, Plan B is VERY hard on your body. You will probably feel sick and have significant symptoms if you take it. It's a shock to the body, which is how it works, but it is NOT designed to be taken except for EMERGENCIES.

    Third, if you can take Plan B, you can take regular BC pills, which is FAR, FAR safer and healthier for your body than Plan B, and is also cheaper. If you're going to have sex without a condom, and risk the STDs, at the very least you should get on hormonal BC (pills, shot, something) to protect yourself from pregnancy. You'll be MUCH better off in the long run.

    • Thank you. Very helpful. I appreciate it greatly. by the way we.. we don't have STD's... lol but thank you again.

    • No one ever thinks they have STDs... I mean, you're probably right - but unless you're both virgins, it's hard to say for sure without being tested.

  • Honestly, i think thats hot, you would have to be on the pill for a while before doing it, because it has to have time to enter your body and start the effects and have a constant stream of the effects before it can fully work, so if buying the pill is out of the question your best bet is to do it on your second most infertile time of the month, which would eliminate 88% of your chance of getting pregnant, but there still is a chance. Id say the most infertile time but thats obviously on your period, which is a no no

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  • DO NOT GO UNPROTECTED.
    do not.
    If you really want to not use condoms, get on the pill or some other hormonal form.

    And you should both get tested prior to not using a condom.

    But plan b is super expensive, it makes you sick. And is for emergencies. Not planned accidents.

    Plus it doesn't have a 100% rate of working.

    So be safe.

  • You should get yourself on a regular form of birth control before having sex without a condom. It is not worth the risk and plan b is a bit pricey and it has other downsides. The first time I used it it made me super nauseous but you can't throw up or else it won't work and you'll have to go buy more.

  • Pull out method we all know your not going to listen and use condoms and to be honest if you can't afford a plan b pill then you shouldn't be having sex in the 1st place but since I know you aren't going to listen the best option here if for you to have him pull out and hope for the best

    • Why are all of you so sarcastic? Why would I not listen and I asked the question. Im genuinely asking for help and insight. But I do understand what you are saying about not having sex if I can't afford it. You're right. So I should probably wait it off until I am more financially ready. Thank you.

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  • Well condoms do not really put a restriction on things and dont feel like anything unless you go into somethings with BJ's and stuff like that then you are good but if you definitely don't want a condom there is nothing you can really do other than a birth control pill

  • Get on the pill, the pullout method is never %100 safe even if he pulls out in time. Pre cum (which comes out automatically, randomly, and is hard to feel sometimes) could get you pregnant. Either do it safe or get on a pill.

  • There are more reasons to use condoms other than pregnancy. Unprotected sex can lead to STD's and even certain types of reproductive cancer.

  • Chart your cycles (they have apps for that) and take whatever birth control you use correctly. Being diligent about doing both should effectively prevent pregnancy. Plan B is not a bad idea, but it's not cheap either. Good luck.

  • Brith control

    • Isn't that still really expensive and like hormone altering? My hormones are already weird. Lol

    • How are you not educated on this at your age you can get it for free and they you can get the lowest dosage I'm just hearing excuses now

    • ... okay. Excuses for what? I just said I didn't want a child. Listen I asked you because I genuinely didn't know. Okay? Im sorry if my lack of knowledge on birth control disturbs you. Really know reason to be rude. It was a simple question. An excuse for what? Please elaborate. If I was making excuses and you called me out I would admit it. I'm not that type of person. Thank you for your consideration.😇

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